As they say, there are many fish in the sea, and this goes the same with online adult dating. And more often than not, the unfortunately-named ones get thrown back in the water, so to speak. Are you sabotaging your own adult dating activities with a bad alias? We have compiled a list of rules to help you achieve online adult dating success.
Don’t be creepy
So, you want to be that guy who comes across as sweet. You love going for long walks on the beach and non-stop cuddles in front of the fireplace. Leave all those details in your profile. If you have been receiving emails from one MrHugs, it would be prudent not to answer. It’s not endearing to attempt to communicate your love of spooning in an eight-character username, so don’t try.
Don’t be overly sexual
If other online members are being sexually harassed by your username, it’s likely they won’t be interested in learning more about you. A username can be a good way to hint at your hobbies, skills or interests, but keep them out of the bedroom. Your online dating username is not the place to reveal your favorite sexual position, number of past partners, fetishes, or bedroom skills. Save the dirty talk until the first date, at the very least.
Brag a little
One online dating website member says that when it comes to dating site usernames, the name is either “what what they think they are or what they would like to become.” Do you love English literature? Go with BookWorm. However, be careful not to exaggerate. Still in law school? Don’t log in as HotshotLawyer quite just yet.
Don’t be cheesy
Usernames like mrprettyboy, coolasice, muscleman, JLolukalike, and hotstuff4you are total turnoffs, says onlind dating member. That hot one you’ve been hitting on may never get a chance to get your particular brand of humor with a name like that. So when in doubt, err on the side of caution.
Be creative
If you’re not up for thinking of what username you’ll use for hours on end, most people won’t throw the book at you for using some variation of your real name. However, refrain from trying to convey just how normal and boy-next-door you are with a boring name like RegularJoe25. Variations on this are rampant on online adult dating sites, and unfortunately so, because they don’t say “normal;” they say “dull as ditchwater.” Labels: adult friend finder, adult sex, adult social network, Booty Call, casual encounters, free casual sex, free sex hook up, fuck buddys, housewifes fucking, married housewives, sexy girls