An Introductory Guide on Your First Date Experience with Hot Girls

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Dating Tips Online: Mastering the Art of Apologizing

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How to Sexting – Starter Guide

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Sexting works. That’s a fact. It is the new form of foreplay that will drive her wild. The random text message in the middle of the day to perk her sexual desire. The fun banter back and forth that will make her rip her clothes off when she sees you. But the questions is: How to sexting?

For those of you who haven’t tried sexting, we are here to help you today. Today I will tell you how to start a hot sexting conversation. Take note: “Only” to start, we will tell you How to sexting in full blown on our next articles. But right now, let’s take it easy and learn how to start it in the right way where in your partner or you will enjoy. Get ready because things will get hot.

Use an oldie but a goodie. Start off by asking “what are you wearing?” This four-word phrase will get the conversation on the right track. First the feeling will be picked up if the recipient is in the proverbial mood for sex talk. Second, it’s the lead question into how graphic the sexting conversation will get.

Use simple phrases to connect. Say “oh, baby, you make me so happy” or “oh, honey, there are things I’d really like to say to you right now.” Once either of these statements are made, the recipient’s curiosity and ego will be stoked for more talk. These are easy questions with endless possibilities of a sexting conversation.

Taking the lead. After the initial questions are put out there, wait for the recipient’s response. This is a determining factor. If his or her response comes back sexually toned, it’s a go for continuing the sexting conversation.

Test the sexting waters. Interest is shown but don’t pounce on the recipient. This can easily scare them away if a domineering presence takes over or strong language offends. Don’t rush the sexting conversation once interest is shared and acknowledged. Choose words carefully. Once a mutual texting language is determined, continuing the sexting conversation should be easy. As the conversations become more frequent testing new words and phrases can be explored.

Describe the intentions. Once the sexting conversation has commenced, slip into dirty talk mode. Tell her how things will be when you meet up. Describe how her body will be ravished and desired. Tell him how he’ll feel when certain parts of his body will be touched by fingers, lips, etc. Tell him or her what you want to do and what you cant wait to do.

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Signs You’re Not on a Date with a Potential Internet Dating Partner

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When you see that quintessential date decoy, pre-meditated third wheel or whatever they are called, it lets you think of those times when you think you were out on a date, but aren't exactly sure. Here are signs to look out for to know when it’s not romantic while out with a potential Internet dating partner.

When they bring a friend

Have you ever invited a friend when out Internet dating with potential partners? Of course not, because you know better than to bring one when Internet dating. If the person you’re meeting for a date shows up with a buddy or says, “Hey, I might invite one of my friends to join us,” this person may not be too keen on spending a romantic time with you.

When they don’t offer to pay or let you pay

Generally speaking, if you’re not quite sure you’re on a date or not, when the one you’re out with offers to pay, it’s a pretty good indication you’re on a date. Otherwise, the way the bill is handled can tell you a lot of things. Here are a couple of instances to help you tell the difference:

- “Okay, let’s take a look at this You need to shell out $14.40.” This is definitely not a date.
- When you offer to pay: “Thank you! The next meal’s on me / let me buy you a drink.” Date.
“How much is it? No, stop. Here’s $14 bucks, I need $7 back.” Not a date.

When they talk about their love life

When you’re out on a date, there’s a very good chance you won’t be bringing up your crush at work or that person you’ve been flirting on Facebook. If the one you’re out with brings this up, consider yourself warned: If they are into you, the conversation should focus only on you instead of some other person they’re harboring a crush on.

When they are relaxed around you maybe a little too relaxed.

Even the most easygoing individual will do a little something extra to prepare for a date they’re pretty stoked about. For most people, this means a stylish outfit selection, careful application of makeup and a series of interesting conversation topics. And for others, this means simply taking a bath.

If your date shows up looking unkempt, straight out of bed and quite distracted, it’s very likely they haven’t spent the last couple of hours preparing themselves mentally and physically for the date. Here are a few things to take note of so they can help clue you in if it’s really a date: Are they intently focused on you, engaging you in conversation and clearly putting a lot of effort in it? Or are they slouched over, ill-mannered and generally not making even a hint of effort?

This can be quite tricky because many people have laissez faire personalities. However, almost everyone behaves differently on a date compared to those times when they hang out with their friends. A good indicator if it’s a romantic outing or not is how much your date appears to be trying.

When you don’t know if they’re interested at the end

If a date goes well, most people would want make this clear. If they aren’t bold enough to make a move, they will usually say something to let the other party know, saying things like, “I really had a great time” or “let me know if you want to hit up that new bar.”


When you see that quintessential date decoy, pre-meditated third wheel or whatever they are called, it lets you think of those times when you think you were out on a date, but aren't exactly sure. Here are signs to look out for to know when it's not romantic while out with a potential Internet dating partner.


· When they bring a friend


Have you ever invited a friend when out Internet dating with potential partners? Of course not, because you know better than to bring one when Internet dating. If the person you're meeting for a date shows up with a buddy or says, Hey, I might invite one of my friends to join us, this person may not be too keen on spending a romantic time with you.


· When they don't offer to pay or let you pay


Generally speaking, if you're not quite sure you're on a date or not, when the one you're out with offers to pay, it's a pretty good indication you're on a date. Otherwise, the way the bill is handled can tell you a lot of things. Here are a couple of instances to help you tell the difference:


- Okay, let's take a look at this You need to shell out $14.40. This is definitely not a date.

- When you offer to pay: Thank you! The next meal's on me / let me buy you a drink. Date.

How much is it? No, stop. Here's $14 bucks, I need $7 back. Not a date.


· When they talk about their love life


When you're out on a date, there's a very good chance you won't be bringing up your crush at work or that person you've been flirting on Facebook. If the one you're out with brings this up, consider yourself warned: If they are into you, the conversation should focus only on you instead of some other person they're harboring a crush on.


· When they are relaxed around you' maybe a little too relaxed.


Even the most easygoing individual will do a little something extra to prepare for a date they're pretty stoked about. For most people, this means a stylish outfit selection, careful application of makeup and a series of interesting conversation topics. And for others, this means simply taking a bath.


If your date shows up looking unkempt, straight out of bed and quite distracted, it's very likely they haven't spent the last couple of hours preparing themselves mentally and physically for the date. Here are a few things to take note of so they can help clue you in if it's really a date: Are they intently focused on you, engaging you in conversation and clearly putting a lot of effort in it? Or are they slouched over, ill-mannered and generally not making even a hint of effort?


This can be quite tricky because many people have laissez faire personalities. However, almost everyone behaves differently on a date compared to those times when they hang out with their friends. A good indicator if it's a romantic outing or not is how much your date appears to be trying.


· When you don't know if they're interested at the end


If a date goes well, most people would want make this clear. If they aren't bold enough to make a move, they will usually say something to let the other party know, saying things like, I really had a great time or let me know if you want to hit up that new bar.

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Taboo Adult Sex Equals Super Hot Adult Sex

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At some point in a girl’s life, she has had a thing for someone in the “thou shalt not touch” category her sorority sister’s ex, her best friend’s brother and has, according to the rules of our polite norms, done everything to stay away.  But if you think she wouldn’t dare cross that line, think again.  Due to its forbidden nature, the level of hotness from illicit hookups is often off the charts.  And when done right, the rewards can be worth all the risks.

     The Girl:  Your Roommate

I know a few couples who started out as roommates, which is solid evidence that this challenge can be taken on.  However, this can also stand as a warning:  Things can go from nothing to relationship status fast.  But if it’s just easy adult sex you’re after, a coed roommate can be a jackpot.  If in the event that you’re not too cordial with your roomie, it’s still easy to start getting intimate after a night out.

The Move:  Adjust to her schedule so you can have time to bond.  Does she get up early in the morning to do Pilates?  Wake up to make coffee.  If she likes to watch “The Voice,” start making it your new show.

Danger Element:  Any awkwardness can only last as long as your lease.

     The Girl:  Your Girlfriend’s Sister

It’s a major guilt factor to destroy a blood bond, but the good news is it’s very difficult to do.  Younger siblings are likely to have a chip on their shoulder from many years of comparison to the big sister, so a good strategy involves telling her how smart, gorgeous, and funny she is and you might be in for a treat.  Or she just might be psycho, in which case you won’t have to do much.

The Move:  Sibs can be ferociously competitive, so work on that and just hope it’s worth all the ensuing chaos.

Danger Element:  Cross the sisters and you might have to deal with the father.

     The Girl:  Your Intern

Having adult sex with a colleague is not uncommon, but it is much riskier when she is under your company position.  Still, you’re in luck because women are so into men who are in a position of power.  Moreover, the inherent possibility for scandal can actually be a turn on for many women.  She may even want people to find out because it can make her feel superior over her colleagues that her boss took a huge risk to choose her almost felt like approval for a job well done.

The Move:  Make her feel like she’s part of the group:  Ask her out along with more established coworkers, and give her legitimate work to do.  However, check company policy first nobody wants to be labeled as a harassing scumbag.

Danger Element:  Smokin’ hot assistant versus steady employment.  Hmmm

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How Free Casual Sex in Bathrooms Became the New One-Night Stand

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Free casual sex in public places isn’t exactly a new phenomenon. Ask the members of the Mile High Club. However, this novelty practice seems to be developing into something more common one that makes the regular one-night stand seem unusual.



David, an aspiring Wall Street lawyer in his early 40s who asked not to be tagged with his real name, is about to propose to his girlfriend. He considers free casual sex in restaurant bathrooms the modern equivalent of forbidden trysts. “I’m almost married, so bathrooms are more like motels for me.”



Michael Kimmel, who is the author of “Guyland: The Inner World of Men, 18 – 26, says propagation of needed instantaneous free casual sex shows that both straight men and women are now appropriating what was then perceived as homosexual behavior. “In the gay culture,” says Kimmel, “there is the idea that you can hit a bar, have free casual sex, zip up, and then have a beer. Now, even women are having free casual sex like their male counterparts do sex for sex’s sake. It’s way easier for both straight and gay men to have sex whenever they want to.”



Shelly, a New York real estate broker in her 30s, provided support to Kimmel’s theory with her own story. Her bathroom taste focuses on a new aspect of stall sex: wealth. She isn’t defiling the bathroom stalls of local dive bars; she’s doing it in the classiest restaurants in Manhattan. “The stalls at Nobu in West 57th are the best,” she says. “You can lean over the sink and watch yourself in the mirror as you do the dirty deed.”



At velvet-rope clubs, like the Plumm in New York, stall sex is a privilege not only the wealthy take pleasure in but also those with preferred customer status. There is one exclusive room at the Plumm that has been specifically designed to hide stall fornicators. According to club owner Noel Ashman, they have a VIP bathroom that goes through the kitchen for its members with a special key that provides entry. When asked if sex really happens there, an unconcerned Ashman says, “I suppose it does.”



Amy Sacco, club owner of celebrity infested Bungalow 8, is similarly undaunted by the practice, although, she takes note of a potential hassle. “It’s no surprise if people are having sex in my bathrooms mine are divine,” she says. “But hopefully they all make it fast I hate it when the lines starts to get long.”



Free casual sex in public places isn’t exactly a new phenomenon. Ask the members of the Mile High Club. However, this novelty practice seems to be developing into something more common one that makes the regular one-night stand seem unusual.



David, an aspiring Wall Street lawyer in his early 40s who asked not to be tagged with his real name, is about to propose to his girlfriend. He considers free casual sex in restaurant bathrooms the modern equivalent of forbidden trysts. “I’m almost married, so bathrooms are more like motels for me.”



Michael Kimmel, who is the author of “Guyland: The Inner World of Men, 18 – 26, says propagation of needed instantaneous free casual sex shows that both straight men and women are now appropriating what was then perceived as homosexual behavior. “In the gay culture,” says Kimmel, “there is the idea that you can hit a bar, have free casual sex, zip up, and then have a beer. Now, even women are having free casual sex like their male counterparts do sex for sex’s sake. It’s way easier for both straight and gay men to have sex whenever they want to.”



Shelly, a New York real estate broker in her 30s, provided support to Kimmel’s theory with her own story. Her bathroom taste focuses on a new aspect of stall sex: wealth. She isn’t defiling the bathroom stalls of local dive bars; she’s doing it in the classiest restaurants in Manhattan. “The stalls at Nobu in West 57th are the best,” she says. “You can lean over the sink and watch yourself in the mirror as you do the dirty deed.”



At velvet-rope clubs, like the Plumm in New York, stall sex is a privilege not only the wealthy take pleasure in but also those with preferred customer status. There is one exclusive room at the Plumm that has been specifically designed to hide stall fornicators. According to club owner Noel Ashman, they have a VIP bathroom that goes through the kitchen for its members with a special key that provides entry. When asked if sex really happens there, an unconcerned Ashman says, “I suppose it does.”



Amy Sacco, club owner of celebrity infested Bungalow 8, is similarly undaunted by the practice, although, she takes note of a potential hassle. “It’s no surprise if people are having sex in my bathrooms mine are divine,” she says. “But hopefully they all make it fast I hate it when the lines starts to get long.”

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Reasons Why Halloween Is the Best Time to Go on a Date Hookup

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Halloween is your last chance to go on a date hookup before the “cuffing season” begins. Cuffing season is the time when you “hole up” for the winter, making you more likely to end up locked up than on a date hookup. So, get your “Vampire Diaries” inspired costumes covered in fake blood for these top reasons why Halloween can be the easiest holiday to go on a date hookup.

• Sexy Costumes

This is the only day of the year when seriously skanky costumes are completely allowed. It gives flirty girls the green light to rock in sexy nurse outfits, vampire bride corsets or French maid costumes. Skip on being a toilet paper mummy because this is all about stockings and stripper heels. Get ready for that girl next door, your buddy’s sister or even the receptionist at the library to suddenly look smoking-hot.

• Sexy Alter Ego

It shouldn’t be just the girls who can get into the spirit of fun and frivolity. Halloween is the perfect opportunity to go from super geek to god for one night. Leave your academic books at the door and go as your favorite role model for the night. Be a dashing James Bond with the girls or a charming Jack Sparrow at the dance floor. And when in doubt, wear a mask ala-Phantom of the Opera and go for a make out session in those dark corners.

• Role-Playing

All that dressing up in costumes, drinking and partying amps your chances of those girls you lust for to role-play. Yes, you may have been battling through fierce resistance in making your naughty nurse fantasies happen with your girlfriend all year, but come Halloween, oh, it’s on! Women are more liberated, so they enjoy dressing up and being in character. Dress as Hugh Hefner, look for a bunny and reap the benefits.

• Sexy Parties

Forget playing pool at your local sports bar. Halloween is an event which guarantees fun parties, booze and fancy dresses. So, make the most out of it. If you don’t have a party to go to yet that promises scantily clad women in costumes, loads of blood red vodka, and “Sex and the City” inspired games, throw your own shindig.

• Sexy Games

Truth or Bare, Pass the Orange, Plant the Kiss on the Lips instead of Pin the Tail on the Donkey, and Strip Twister. These are the kind of games you can play on Halloween. I’m pretty sure you can think of naughtier variations.

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Adult Dating Milestones Guys Fear

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When adult dating, guys look forward to the first kiss, the first “home run,” etc. However, some “firsts” are a bit trickier. Here are a few tips on going through them when adult dating.

• Impressing Your Buddies

Mixing your guy with your friends is like drinking tequila and jumping in trampolines. It could be totally awesome or it could go the other way and be a disaster. However, a little prep work can help everything go smoothly.

• Dealing with Your Inexplicable Distress

Maybe you get into a bad mood every month, maybe around holidays or when working through an office deadline, but guys don’t know that yet. They always think if they set you off somehow. Generally, when guys sense they’re in trouble, they tend to pull away, neglecting women when they most need the support. Don’t keep guys guessing, so a quick explanation that’s straight to the point can keep your guy from worrying he might be responsible for you being crabby.

• Literally Sleeping Together

The first time you doze off into a sleepover devoid of sex can be weird for a guy. You begin asking questions like, has your sex life lost its fire and fizzled out? Have you lost your mojo and think you’re not all that between the sheets anymore? This is one of those times for you to stretch your understanding a little further. Tenderly cuddle your way to dreamland, and then sent him a text message the next day saying you wish you hadn’t slept because you now strongly desire for him even more than usual. That’s the way to do it! And then, pounce on him when you get the opportunity to erase any lingering doubts.

• Getting Caught Ogling Over Somebody Else

What girls need to know when dating guys is we’re only human, so it’s natural to make mistakes. There will be some instances that a guy will check out a waitress in her short skirt, perhaps because he hasn’t seen one in months, and get caught by his girl. Surely, it’s going to be hell for him when she gives him a hard time.

Noticing other women who are attractive is simply an instinct, and in no way intended to insult you. If you guy gets absurdly rude about it, it’s only right to call him out and demand an apology. However, losing it on him will just make you look jealous and insecure. Here’s a better ploy: Give her a knowing grin and make a comment like, “She’s cute, huh?” He definitely knows he’s busted, but he doesn’t feel like he’s guilty of doing you wrong.

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What Not to Say to a Thirty Something Woman from a One Night Stand Website

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When looking for matches in a one night stand website, you can’t help to come across single women in their thirties. It can be quite challenging for a woman to be in her thirties. They get the feeling of accomplishment somehow, but think it is not yet enough. This feeling of “enough” is kind of hard to explain, but it may be the single most important thing that can define women in their thirties. “Enough” is not measured by the money they earn, the degree they have achieved, the number of shoes they have in their collection, or having babies—it’s something bigger.

For women who hit their thirties, they start to see two clear paths that they can take: one leads to career, and one leads to family. When some women turn thirty, this is the only time they realize the gravity of the situation being presented to them—how do they it to have both?

To give you a guide in hooking up with women in their thirties from a one night stand website, here is a guide of what NOT to say when trying to connect with them.

• “Ah, the big three-o!”

For women turning thirty, it is a milestone with no good reason. It’s just a seemingly random and frivolous occasion that makes you re-evaluate everything that you have, all the things you’ve done, all that you are, and all you wish to be. It may be serious stuff, but frankly annoying.

• “Women are like fine wine, they get better with age.”

Any jokes or statements metaphorically comparing women to fine wine should be declared illegal. Turning thirty is not the same as turning twenty-one, so this isn’t really cool.

• “Is that your biological clock I hear ticking?”

Any mention of the biological clock is a big no-no. Women are going to tell you they don’t really think about it, but in reality they all do. They are either trying to ignore it or are totally obsessing about it—or maybe a combination of both. Since they have babies on their minds during this stage, it’s not a good idea to ask about being married and planning to have a family.

• “You should really start looking after yourself.”

Do not suddenly be condescending about their health like they were eating poorly before they hit thirty. They made it to their thirties, so don’t patronize them.

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Ways to Initiate Physical Contact When Hookup Dating

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One cannot overlook the significance of making your first physical contact with a woman when hookup dating. Whether you are still in the early stages of hookup dating or a first meeting with a girl, physical contact is a good indication of progress. And once you’ve crossed that line, you can work on increasing the frequency, length and level of intensity of such contact. There are a variety of ways to break the touch barrier. So if you are wondering how to initiate such a move when out hookup dating, here is a short list of the best ways to do that.

• If she’s feeling cold, take her hands and rub with yours – This may be a bit cheesy, but when executed properly with a little irony, it can make for good laughs and help establish a connection. It can also send a message saying you can offer a warm and safe place for them when they feel cold.
• Brush an eyelash off her face – This is something reminiscent of those annoying romcoms, but when done properly, taking out a tiny piece of hair from her face can have a surprising effect on a woman. It can also say you’re looking out for them and even the smallest thing can’t get by you. She may laugh it off, but she will surely enjoy the skin contact.
• Hold her hand to lead her someplace – This is one of the best displays of alpha male behavior, which is also a relatively low-risk way to initiate physical contact and can be quite easy to pull off. It exhibits leadership, being protective and confidence.
• Read her palm – One of the oldest in the book, this move is full of possibilities for bold wit. When she’s looking at you while you focus on reading her palm, you can say a variety of flirtatious lines to make her laugh.
• Make contact when dancing – The beauty of this is since you are dancing, you are practically licensed to pretty much put your hands all over her. Well, almost but that shouldn’t stop you from putting your hands on her hips and get closer.
• Offer a massage – If she looks tired or stressed, position yourself to offer a back rub or a shoulder massage. She’ll be thankful for the idea and it’s the perfect time to introduce your hands and make physical contact. Just make sure you know what you are doing, because nothing spells disaster than like applying the wrong pressure on a pain-sensitive part of her body.

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Top Turn Offs for Women When Hookup Dating

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A single man’s goal is to land a single woman when they go hookup dating. However, no matter how overly charming, highly attractive and perfectly witty you are, women can be turned off instantly like a light bulb in a flick of a switch. Here are a few things to avoid when hookup dating with a woman so you can stop yourself from turning them off.

• Being overly intoxicated – Under the right circumstances, it is probably alright to be a little out of control when drinking—like maybe in the confines of your own home or at a bachelor’s party. Being loud and obnoxious or stumbling, slurring your words and falling all over the place are not the qualities that women go for when hookup dating.

• Negative vibes – On your first meet up, avoid throwing playful insults and just try to be sweet and charming. Refrain from criticizing other people too, even if your intention is to give her a compliment. Don’t say, “That girl’s legs are short and stubby. Yours are much nicer.” Negative statements can show you are mean, a snob, picky or simply an idiot.

• Bad pickup lines – This cannot be emphasized more. Delivering cheesy one liners when trying to pick up women just shows your lack of creativity, imagination and romance. The best way to do this is to show and make her feel you are sincerely interested, or else you’ll just be driving her away.
• Too much cologne – It is a given that you should smell good when you’re with a woman. A fragrant aftershave, cologne or deodorant is a great way to attract a female, but one spray too much can be offensive to a woman’s sense of smell.

• Expletives – A man with a dirty mouth does not make a good first impression. It is important to be a gentleman on the onset of a relationship. A potty mouth is a sign of awful manners, which is someone women wouldn’t want to spend time with.

• Bad breath – You have been pulling all the stops all night and they all seem to work on her, but you can put all your efforts in vain with bad breath. Good oral hygiene is extremely essential. Chipped and rotting teeth, chapped lips and halitosis will send her running for the hills. If your mouth isn’t clean, it will make her wonder which parts of your body aren’t too.

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Top Signs the Girl from a One Night Stand Website Is into You

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First impressions on people are generally based on non-verbal signs. According to the Social Issues Research Center, human communication is made up of 55% non-verbal, 38% using signals, and 7% has anything to do with what you actually say. This leads to the conclusion that to know if a girl from a one night stand website is into you, you should keenly observe her non-verbal signals. Here are proven ways that girls consciously, and sometimes unwittingly, let you know they are interested. Look out for them and watch your dating life unfold.

• Touching and flicking of hair – For more than four decades, scientists have been studying non-verbal behaviors of women to let men know they are interested. One essential category of flirting is called kinetic gestures, which includes the oldest trick in the book—the proverbial hair toss. But while a casual and seductive hair toss can be a signal of letting you know she enjoys your company, too much can mean she’s just nervous or not sure about you.

• Licking of lips – This is another kinetic gesture that girls do unwittingly to show they’re into you. This sign may be an indication that they want to draw attention to their lips and may have the desire to liplock. You should exercise caution though, to avoid creating an embarrassing and awkward moment. Too much lip licking can be an indication of a bad habit.

• Teasing – When we were kids, the one way of showing a girl that you liked her was by throwing insults her way or stuffing dirt in her clothes. Now, consider teasing the adult version of this behavior. Don’t be too sensitive about it though. That girl you want to hook up with from a one night stand website might just be testing your level of interest.

• A friendly response to your messages – A curt response to your messages is one way of shutting you down. However, a friendly and smiling response is a sign of wanting to have further conversation. To get quality time to your next search on a one night stand website, ask questions that are easy to answer so they can respond simply. Through their responses, you’ll know if they are interested.

• She shares back – Once you have a good conversation going on, take it to the next level by sharing something a bit intimate to her. You should keep one thing in mind though—the less you know her, the more positive and less personal the information you should share, unless you want to scare her off. If this is reciprocated, it is a sign she sees you in a more favorable light. Capitalize.

• Open postures – This applies to both men and women. We send signals by changing the posture and orientation or our bodies. If she is turned away from you, especially at a 90 degree angle, this is a sign she is non-verbally shutting off your attempts to get to know her. Her arms crossed on her chest and when she is trying to lean away from you are also similar signs of this. Receptive signs show postures that are open and welcoming like having her torso face you, arms uncrossed and her body leaning towards you.

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Tips When Dating Through an Online Dating Web site

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If you have decided to make the jump and have opened your doors to dating through an online dating web site, here are four very helpful tips to make a good impression and bring your A game.

1. Use a mature screen name.

BigLebowski9inch may sound clever to you, but it’s highly unlikely SweetPea26 will want nothing to do with a guy who feels the need to let everybody know at an online dating website, especially when you're probably not even close to even a four.

Have fun and be creative with your screen name. However, refrain from being arrogant or cocky. Avoid using names that refer to wealth or immaturity. Select names that are catchy and easy to remember. You should think of a name that gives an indication of who you are or what you are all about. For instance, if you play in a band and are a culinary expert, your screen name could be BassPlayingChef. Right off the bat, you get a sense of what this person is all about. Remember that this is a name that can stick to you as a nickname, so don’t go for names like MommasBoy or IAmKingKong.

2. Use a nice high-quality profile picture.

An online dating web site profile without a photo says two things: You are either unattractive or you’re in a relationship. Of course, people looking for a potential partner would want to see your face, so shots with sunglasses and/or headgear that may hide even part of your face might as well not even be displayed. A cap can make her reach an assumption that you may have a balding problem that you are trying to hide. Have someone else take your picture for you, because a self-portrait screams desperate loneliness.

Upload a current headshot and a full-body portrait of yourself. Kick it up a notch with a picture of you laughing. Generally, people make their decision based on the primary photo. There are online dating websites where you can upload up to 20 photos or more, so you can include a variety photos that can showcase your personality. Just make sure your primary profile photo is an accurate representation of what you really look like.

3. Write a clever profile.

Don’t sound apologetic. People don’t need you to tell them you’re not a writer or you’re not good in writing things about yourself. Be positive; let your character and personality shine through.

Women are generally more emotional than visual, so try to describe the many aspects of your personality as you can. Injecting humor and a little self-deprecation can be endearing. It is also a good way to get noticed.

4. Always be honest.

More often than not, guys lie about their height and gals about their weight. Since women take a few inches off what you put on your profile anyway, this doesn’t put you in the clear. If you’re just a 5’6” and her height requirement is at least 5’10”, just play by the rules and move on to the next. Or else, when you finally meet on your first date, get ready to be smacked in your lying little face.

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Tips on What to Say That May Lead to Free Sexting Conversations

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It is very important that what you say to a woman brings music to her ears, and not like the screeching sound a piece of chalk makes when being used to write on a blackboard. Although when trying to hookup through free sexting conversations, what she wants you to say can depend on the situation. You can always change these suggestions as you see fit. Here are our top conversation tips that can lead up to a nice free sexting exchange.

• “How did that start?”

Taking an interest on the things in her life—like her job or her hobby—that she loves to talk about is important for a first date conversation. It’s a given that women like to talk about themselves, but they also want guys to show interest in what they are into so they know you are also into them.

• “One of my dreams is to…”

Women do not only want to talk about themselves—which is contrary to popular belief; they also want to know what’s going on with you. Telling them about your dreams is a great thing to have them gain interesting insights about you, and she’ll dig the fact that you can open up to her.

• “My friends were telling me about…”

Mentioning friends telling you about something interesting in your conversations can let her know you have awesome buddies.

• “Hahaha!”

This one is as simple as it gets: The sound of your laughter will always be something she would want to hear. It gives her validation that she has a good sense of humor and you find her charming. However, don’t overdo it, and keep it genuine.

• “This reminds me of when I…”
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At times, the best way to get to know someone is through stories of personal anecdotes. So, go ahead and share an awesome experience that stands out as an unforgettable memory.

• “I had a really great time.”

At the conclusion of a first date, there is always this aura of awkwardness that hangs in the air, with both of you wondering if the other had a really good time or not. The best thing to do is simply let her know and tell her. She’ll be happy hearing it from you.

• “I’ll call you.”

Since you’re the guy, it would be nice to take the initiative and let her know you’ll call her after your date. She may have heard this line from a lot of guys she went out with, but never did get a callback. Still, it would be nice to let her know you will.

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The Only Adult Dating Rule You Must Follow

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Adult dating—or dating in general—is pretty tough. More women than men are cautious about adult dating, because most of them are not the type that are into the game-playing or rules-following aspect of it. Why should they be into it if there are people that don’t even play the same game, or follow the same rules? When this happens, it generally results in bad communication, hurt feelings and walls that are difficult to bring down.

To help you conquer this obstacle, there is one rule that everybody should know and follow. We shall call it “The Rule of Two.” This rule is not about being elusive or playing hard to get, it is about giving common courtesy and paying mutual respect, making the whole adult dating process a pleasant experience. Here is how the rule works:

In the early phase of adult dating, do not ask a person out or make vague remarks more than twice without getting a response first from that person. If she does not respond to you the first time, it may be one of the following reasons: she may be busy, she hasn’t opened her email inbox yet, her phone battery died or has poor cell reception, it takes her a little more time to respond, etc. Continuously chasing her even after putting you off doesn’t come across as persistently debonair; it makes you look like you don’t know how to read subtle signals that she’s not interested at all.

You shouldn’t take this is the wrong way though. Yes, it’s rude for her—or anyone for that matter—to be disregarded on purpose like that, but it is also rude to keep pushing yourself to get her attention even if she’s sending out different signals saying she’s not that into you. Besides, who would want to go out adult dating with someone who does not even like you back?

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Speed Hookup Dating Tips

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It’s a good thing you have finally come to terms with the fact that you are not a chick magnet, and it takes a little more effort for you to meet women. Or maybe you just haven’t dated in a while, and you need to sharpen your skills to get you back in the hookup dating game.

For those reasons, speed hookup dating is the right thing for you. By carefully thinking of the right strategy, you’re already ahead of everyone else in the game, because if you know what you are doing, those other guys aren’t exactly stiff competition.

The main concern about speed hookup dating is young and hot women go there because of two reasons: 1) some men don’t have the guts to introduce themselves under normal circumstances; 2) they just want to have a fun night-out with their girl friends.

What guys need to know is this is a prime hunting ground for the savvy dater. Women go speed hookup dating to find guys who are interesting, confident and charming. However, what people don’t realize is this is the last place you’ll find men of these kinds, because they don’t have the need to go speed hookup dating to find a woman. If you can follow some of our tips, you’re already in the winner’s circle.

• Don’t line them up – If you get fortunate enough to get a few matches, be sure to start with date number one and schedule the others at different times afterward. Around sixty percent of women go on a speed date with their friends, while 90% of guys go alone. So if you try to line up three dates that are friends in three consecutive days, they might not be impressed.

• Evaluate your performance – Didn’t make any connections? It’s time to change your strategy. Always remember it’s all about confidence and charm to catch a woman’s attention. Think about asking good questions and work on a little naughty teasing with a good story. To make you sound interesting, try learning a new language, go bungee jumping or attend a good concert.

• Don’t track her down – If you did not connect with anyone because they didn’t find you interesting, don’t even attempt to find them online or hangout somewhere near their workplace. That’s just plain creepy. Forget them and move on. Just fine tune your strategy and have another go.

• Be polite and make proper goodbyes – Almost all the guys at speed dating events stop at midsentence and awkwardly move along to the next table when their time was up. Be sure to let your date finish, look her in the eyes and tell her how nice it was to meet her.

• Do not focus on your weaknesses – You have a very short time to sell yourself, so don’t talk about how you lost your job, your exes and how you had to move back to your parents’ house.

• Think of some interesting questions to ask – Most women have been asked with the common, “Are you into sports?” Try asking them about what superpower they would like to have, what they would spend on if they win a million dollars, etc. These kinds of questions will make you stand out and help you connect with other interesting women.

• Dress up nicely – The women you’ll be meeting made efforts to look good. They are most certainly made up—waxed, polished and fragrant. Refrain from going in that old rag you call a shirt you wore yesterday. A well-fitting shirt and nice pair of shoes is necessary

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Prepping Your Home for Dates from an Online Dating Web site

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The place you live in speaks volumes about you. Your home is a reflection of your own lifestyle, personality and sense of style. So, you want to make sure you always give the right impression on your dates from an online dating website when you decide to bring them home. From cleaning, furnishing, designing and accessorizing, here are a few home makeover tips to make sure your crib is date-friendly. It’s time to capitalize on homecourt advantage.

• Prioritize – Your date is coming over in a couple of hours, so this doesn’t leave you much time to overhaul your entire house. What you need to do is focus on parts of the house that will be most seen and used—the entry hallway, living room, kitchen, bathroom and, of course, the bedroom.

• Declutter – Nothing can make a house look dirtier and more disorganized than clutter. Grab an empty box or a garbage bag and go around the house to put away all the stuff that have no use anymore. Wipe away tabletops, countertops, furniture and other house fixtures. Put away your laundry and make sure your linens and sheets are fresh.

• Fix – Take a tour around your house and check for things that have a need to be fixed or repaired. Just like a motor vehicle, your house also has to be maintained. So quit putting off things that needs to be done and try to replace that burnt out light bulb or cover that ugly hole in your bedroom wall. It would be embarrassing and may even be detrimental to your cred in an online dating web site.
• Stock up – It is important to have all the essentials available—an assortment of beverages, snacks, and toiletries.

• Furnish – This doesn’t mean you have to go out and purchase new furniture, but make sure your place is fully furnished. Your living room should have a nice couch, end tables, a coffee table in the middle, a media player, and two extra chairs if possible. The bedroom should, of course, have a comfy bed with a headboard, nightstands on both sides of the bed and a dresser. The rooms in your house should have the necessary furnishings without looking cluttered.

• Accessorize – Complimenting accessories add nice colors, patterns, style and texture to a home. It makes your place cozy to live in. Even if your rooms are fully furnished, these items can make your place feel more like home with your added personal touch.

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Places to Meet Women Outside of a One Night Stand Website

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Meeting women can be more challenging than, say, rocket science, especially when men initiate most of the pickups. Bars can be like finding your way in the dark because you really have no idea if you have anything in common with the girls that you meet there. Hooking up with a girl from a one night stand website offer a better option, but you have to go through a process of knowing them by shooting back electronic messages before the initial meeting, which can take a long time. Men are always in the unenviable position of being constantly ignored or rejected when hooking up at a one night stand website or even a bar for that matter. But the truth is women are all around us. You can meet one not just in a bar or a one night stand website, but in every place we go to everyday. Here are a few places where you can meet a potential partner.

• The Gym – This is one of the easiest to meet one of you play it right. You have the perfect reason to be near her—you’re waiting in line to use a machine. A nice plus is you are both interested in getting fit, which means you’re both hot and sweaty and oozing with endorphins. A word of caution though: Wait till she finishes working out before you make your move, and make sure she’s not in an inappropriate position while you make comments about her sensitive body parts.

• The Grocery Store – This is an exceptionally easy place to pick up women because there are loads of things to ask her about that can help you start a conversation.

• Art Museum Shindigs – If you are more into artists than pop stars, then an art museum is the most ideal place to pick up artsy-fartsy types. Not only is it highly probable she’s cultured, but she may be a seasoned traveler, intelligent and quirky.

• A Music Festival or Concert – This can be a place where you can easily start a conversation when you know you both have excellent taste in music and you are both fans of the band.

• The Laundromat – This is also a great place to meet women as evidenced in the movies and TV shows. It takes 30 minutes to wash a load and another 45 minutes to dry, so you have plenty of time to “work your charm.”

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Meet Single Women Through Online Dating and Free Sexting

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Fact: There are a lot of awesome single women out there also looking for awesome single men. And before we tell you how to find them and meet them, here are a few things you need to understand.

• You should stop all the self-pity and start being more aggressive.
• Try online dating and free sexting to meet women.
• Visualize: Believe that you can meet awesome women, and you will.

The reason you are not meeting any of the awesome single women out there is because you are full of excuses and you don’t even want to do anything to meet them. You don’t want to put yourself out on the market and you come up with a pathetic excuse that there are no awesome single women out there.

This is a common excuse for men use when they refuse to go out dating. But the truth is there is even a deeper reason why—these men don’t have the balls to go talk to women, resulting in this antisocial behavior because you don’t want to deal with rejection.

To set things right, you need to change your mindset: There are tons of amazing single women out there that want to meet you, so you’ll be going out there to give them this wonderful opportunity to meet somebody equally amazing. It’s all about the attitude, so you’ll just have to work on that.

Yes, it may be a bit difficult to meet single women in your area unless you go out more. You might want to check out the places where the single women hang out or you may have to approach them at places you are not comfortable with. Wherever they are, they exist. You just need to work on the proper attitude and mindset to stop living in the land of excuses.

The easiest and most convenient way to do this is through online dating. Search the Internet for the right online dating website that’s right for you. Sign up and create your own amazing profile that will attract those single women. You’d be surprised on how many of these women sign up at these sites. Once you connect, you can send each other messages to get to know them better. You can even go free sexting and hookup with a few. The possibilities are endless. All you have to do is believe in them, and they can happen.

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