The Reasons Why Men Prefer Hookup Dating Over Relationships

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Recently, a “trend” piece was published about how the majority of college guys prefer hookup dating over relationships. Naturally, female college students are at an uproar over this alarming pattern. Here’s the thing: You’ve probably been hookup dating for maybe four to eight years, and hopefully have another four to eight years of hookup dating in the future. And if you are fortunate enough, you still have 30 – 50 years of one relationship to look forward to. Give it a rest, girls. Here are a few reasons why men choose hookup dating over a relationship.

• Variety

Variety is the spice of life. It helps us to avoid turning into zombie robots. It even helps define men who they really are and what they want in a woman. You go hookup dating with just one girl and you haven’t the slightest idea what other lips, boobs, butts, and vaginas feel, smell and taste like.

• It’s convenient

Most men, if not all, are creatures of convenience. And while most would argue that it can’t get any more convenient than having a steady, dedicated girlfriend who can be at your side, in your bed waiting, this is highly debatable. If you fuck it up with your girlfriend, you’ll be spending days, weeks or months in the doghouse. Now if you fuck it up with a hook up, you can either give her a half-ass apology and hope to keep her in your circles or move on to the next girl that comes along. It’s that simple.

• It’s inexpensive

It’s pretty obvious that being single is way less expensive than being in a relationship. You will often have to dine in expensive restaurants and your girlfriend will go for the finer things in life. There will be birthdays, anniversaries, holidays, vacations, etc. Well, you get the picture.

• It’s educational

This goes hand-in-hand with variety as well, because the more you hook up with different girls, the more knowledgeable you are, not just in matters of sex, but also as a person. You develop different social skills like listening, empathy, sympathy and ultimately become well-rounded.

• It’s less stressful

It seems that everyone is stressed these days for whatever reason, so why add to the stress with being in a committed relationship where you follow all these rules and regulations? Yeah, I thought so.

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The Absolute Guy Adult Dating Addiction: The Crazy Female

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She has a ton of emotional baggage, a anti-anxiety drug habit, and daddy issues. However, despite countless times of being burned, you’re helpless against a hot crazy woman. Also, have you ever gone adult dating a crazy girl and lived to tell the tale?

For Ben, a 35-year old property investor from New York, it was Tiffany. Tiffany was a publicist also from New York—with model features, a bad habit when it came to acquiring mod vintage clothing, and a fanatic obsession with Nietzsche and Amy Winehouse. She was disarmingly beautiful and brilliant, but she also had a dark side.

Tiffany was paranoid. She believed some people are trying to kill her, a pathologic liar obsessed with men in positions of authority, and was also prone to random episodes of crying. None of this made Ben think of going for easier romantic pursuits. On the contrary, he was hooked.

This was the sort of adult dating scenario where you see her as this wounded bird that you just constantly want to repair. It’s just like the Stockholm syndrome—you become sympathetic to your captors instead of realizing, “Oh shit, I’m the hostage!”

In all likelihood, you’ve dated a woman like this. Your friends sounded the alarm which you willfully ignored and your parents pleaded for you to stop seeing her. She’s the crazy girl—the reason that made everyone seriously think about your sanity and fear for your future. Her identity can vary, but whatever it is, it’s highly probably she is intoxicatingly sexy, intense, unstable, mercurial, and impossible to be at ease around in social settings. She was completely exhausting to be with. So why the hell was she so compelling?

Perhaps whenever you fancy someone who has the potential to lose themselves or change in front of your very eyes, there is something attractive with that. Being with her has the ability to transform who you are because someone has just thrown her marbles on the floor and you have no clue when they’re doing it again. It is definitely not an adult dating relationship based on trust.

Of course, it’s not a relationship based on trust. It’s about ungoverned recklessness, chaos, and surreal escapism and unpredictability. An excitement that’s so rare and so powerful, you totally forget to give a shit about consequences and personal sacrifices. That kind of relationship has the potential to take you down a dark mountain road on a tricked out Harley, going over the speed limit.

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The Rules of Engagement of Fuck Buddies

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I’m pretty sure everybody has had their share of fuck buddies. It starts off as being the best pseudo relationship ever, because it’s really not a real relationship to begin with. “You think I’m hot, I think you’re hot, so let’s get it on.” It’s that simple. The number one rule to follow is to keep it casual. However, why should there be rules to follow anyway? The reason behind this is because some people just don’t get the dynamics of being fuck buddies. To help our more unfortunate brethren who are in search for sex sans strings, here are our rules of engagement.

1. Both parties should lay all their cards on the table and be totally honest with their intentions from the get go. Failure to stay true to their word is subject for dismissal.

2. Both parties shall bolster their honest words with actions that are in line with the initial arrangement. Actions indicating otherwise will lead to a breach in verbal contract.

3. If one party gets attached, it is their responsibility to tell the other. Silence will be understood as compliance.

4. Both parties shall keep sending text messages to a minimum. Each text message exchange can be flirtatious, but should be bereft of romanticism and flowery or sweet words.

5. Daily rendezvous and meet ups are strictly prohibited. Hanging out in groups on a weekly basis is encouraged.

6. Do not, under any circumstances, invite her to your place to cook meals for her, give her back rubs or do anything else a boyfriend would do.

7. Refrain from planning. All plans shall be made in the moment and should be for the next hour. Any plans made beyond that shall be considered a date, therefore voiding your status of being fuck buddies.

8. There shall be no formal introductions to each other’s families. Chance encounters shall be dealt with improvisation, during which you refer to each other as colleagues, and then end with the party whose family is not there to leave and meet up with their better half. Any sort of physical contact is not allowed during this encounter.

9. If one party falls ill, the other shall keep away and check in from remote locations once standard time of infection has elapsed.

10. Always hold on to the impression that the other party is seeing, dating, or hooking up with other parties regardless if it is not the case. If another party intends to hook up with your fellow fuck buddy, by all means support it or opt out and look for another hook up for the night.

11. You shall not cuddle or spoon after doing the deed. Once you have claimed all the benefits, roll over to the other side and fall asleep without unnecessarily touching your fellow fuck buddy.

Always keep these rules in mind and you should be alright. But, of course, you should not be overthinking about this. If you are, then it’s time to bail.

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Tell Tale Signs Your Adult Dating Partner Is Going to Be Fat

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I’m not saying that there is something wrong with it, because people say that majority of heavyset people are jolly. I would have to agree with that statement for those chubbies who embrace their extra poundage. However, for most, packing in that extra weight can be quite worrisome. Studies show that obesity is the number one killer in America. Unless you’re a gymaholic or a genetic freak of nature, gaining weight is an inevitable consequence of aging. You start to get lazy and you lose motivation. But if your objective is to avoid this from happening to you, and at the same time looking for an adult dating partner who will not embarrass you, here is a helpful guide in determining if your girl will start to balloon.

• She’s got fat genes (No, not Phat Jeans)

Check your adult dating partner’s mom before buying the total package. If she looks like a cow, you might need to move along. The milk may be free, but you really wouldn’t want to buy this cow. Run, far away, before she eats your couch.

• She owns a lot of leggings

She has leggings; shitloads of them. There is only one reason why a woman has to wear leggings all the time—the size of their tummy can’t be controlled so they need elastic to hold their gargantuan gut in. Rummage through your woman’s dresser and when you see more than three pairs of leggings, you’re pretty much screwed.

• All you activities revolve around food

You only go out on dates to dine. This can be both your fault. You should’ve done something of the outdoors and athletic type instead of always going out to eat in the beginning of your adult dating phase. If you keep letting her shove food down her throat, you have nobody else to blame but yourself. If she keeps on indulging, then she obviously enjoys the free dinners, and soon enough it will be too late to turn back the caloric clock. Get your asses of the couch and do something—anything—or you’ll both be fat.

• She always orders salads

She constantly orders salads when you start adult dating. Okay, let me explain something to you guys—no one eats that much salad. NOBODY. She is lying to her teeth if wants to show her dainty manner before you invite her over your place for a romantic home-cooked meal you have prepared for her. Once she let’s herself loose and starts devouring every steak in your fridge, you will regret ignoring this sign.

• She has no need to work out now that she has a boyfriend

You have been adult dating for a while now and she has become lazy to hit the gym. Most of us do let ourselves go after putting up such a fine show the first few months of dating, but this is quite inexcusable and promotes false advertising. If you start to notice your girl slacking off, chain her to a treadmill and run it on high. If she’s still running after an hour, you know you’ve got yourself a champ.

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Tell Tale Signs Your Adult Dating Partner Used to be a Stripper or Porn Actor

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Scent Preferences of Women When Adult Dating Vary Per Area

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How to Snag an Adult Dating Partner During the Holidays

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Being single during the holiday season may have its advantages: That’s one less present you have to give and a whole lot of flirting going on for you in the party circuit. However, there are many women who strongly desire to have an adult dating partner to ring in the New Year with. If that’s what you really want, make it happen by snagging that guy you’ve been hanging out with and go for these creative and inexpensive adult dating ideas.

• Surprise your man with a date that will have his mind blown: an MMA match, shooting range, wine tasting tour. He’s going to love your creativity.

• Go on a day hike and bask in the wonderful autumn colors of a woodsy trail. You’ll both feel good and alive, connected to nature and to each other.

• Instead of having a few beers at a local pub, go to a wine bar. Sharing a new experience together causes the brain to give you a chemical rush akin to the rush of attraction.

• It doesn’t matter if Halloween is over. Go ahead and pop in a cheesy-scary DVD movie like “Zombieland” and you can laugh or cower at the scary and funny parts.

• Invite him over for some delicious homemade s’mores you just cook on your stovetop. It’s a saccharine gesture that’s not as loaded and as time-consuming as cooking up a fancy spread.

• Go out to see a college football game. Men love anything that has to do with sports and competition.

• Doing something new spontaneously can be exciting. Pick a town you’ve never visited before within a few hours of where you both live, Google Map it or set your GPS, get in your car and go on a road trip.

• Try ice skating, and don’t be afraid to be bad at it. It will give you something silly to bond over.

• On the next full moon, invite him to take a long walk. Try not to speak to too much and just hold each other’s hands under the moonlight.

• If snow falls early in the season, take a cheap plastic sled up a nearby hill. You will feel free, child-like and unguarded with playing in the snow.

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How to Get Rid of Your Adult Dating Partner Like a Man

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It is one of the most terrible, most gut-wrenching things a guy can do, and they do it with as much courtesy as whipping an old nun with her rosary. We can definitely do better. Here are a few things to keep in mind when dumping your adult dating partner.

• Forget about maintaining your status as the nicest guy on the planet. Don’t take away the opportunity for her to fuckin’ hate your guts.

• Don’t use that pathetic cliché “it’s not you, it’s me” and that “you’re too good for me” crap. Being condescending when breaking up with your adult dating partner is as shameful as sending her a text message saying that you’re leaving. And never ever set sail on a long, painful mission to inflict low-level torture and slowly accumulating emotional distance to your adult dating partner until she finally breaks down because you were such a coward to do it at first.

• Make a clean break. This means no hesitations and definitely no make-up sex, unless, of course, she’s relieved that it’s over—fine with it in every way—and still wants to fool around every once in a while.

• Take note, she might be happier about this happening than you are.

• It was believed that JFK sent a bouquet of flowers to the women he was breaking it off with. And while we can’t fully confirm the truth about this nor condone it, we highly recommend the sentiment behind it.

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Dating Tips Online - You can’t hurry love

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Here we have offer you again useful dating tips online. One of our readers sent as a question regarding their dating and sex life. Read on and learn what our residence doctor and expert can say about that.

Dear Doc:
I met an amazing man a couple of months ago. He’s gorgeous, the sex is hallucinating and we have a lot of fun when we are together…I think this just might be love! We’ve been talking about moving in together and I must admit the idea of it, although quick, sounds pretty good to me! My friends are being real bitches though, saying that I should get to know him better before taking that big a plunge but in all honesty, it just feels right to both of us. Do you think I’m crazy for wanting to do this?

Dear Reader:
People mistake attraction, “chemistry”, good sex, attachment, having fun, infatuation, and just about any other romantic or sexual feeling for “love”. There seems to be a romantic inside each of us who wants to believe that “love conquers all”, “all you need is love”, etc. It is tempting to interpret our romantic feelings as “love”.

We tend to make our relationship mistakes when choosing and acting unconsciously, using our heart instead of our head. Just using your head might seem pretty unromantic and cold, and that is not desirable either. I advocate using your heart and your head. To be a sustainable life partnership, all your requirements must be met, and love must grow over time. The normal pattern is for your excitement about the relationship to start high and gradually fall down to earth. I strongly recommend that you give a relationship enough time to do this, and then see what you really have and judge more objectively if the relationship is a good long-term choice for you and if it really is love.

Remember you should never be in a hurry to make such a life-altering decision and that’s probably what your friends are trying to get thru to you.


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Sex Tips Online - Virgin

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Here we have offer you again useful sex tips online. One of our readers sent as a question regarding their dating and sex life. Read on and learn what our residence doctor and expert can say about that.

Dear Doctor:
I am 20 and still a virgin. I use the word “still” because it seems like the whole Universe is having sex, except for me! My boyfriend of 6 months feels the same way and is stating to insist, more like pressuring me, so we do. There are times when I just want to say “to hell with it” and let him put his penis inside of me…God knows I want it sometimes…but at other times, I am just really scared of all that surely comes with sex. Furthermore, I feel sexually frustrated with our current situation. What should I do?

Dear Reader:
You are very young and have plenty of years ahead of you to have sex. Although it might not seem that way to you, I assure you there are plenty of other people in the world, not having sex for many varied reasons so don’t feel peer pressure in that respect. Furthermore, the fact that your boyfriend is pressuring you to have sex is something which I not only dislike, but it flat out worries me. I fear he’ll get what he wants and then move on to somebody else when for you, on the other hand, this will be a trascendental encounter. So think twice before engaging in sex with this guy.

Furthermore, if you feel sexually frustrated, there are many other practices you can engage in that don’t imply penetration; for instance, oral sex. And if you don’t want to open that door, then you guys can masturbate each other or even rub each other, on top of your clothes, until you both have an orgasm. It can be done.

Find what feels right for you. Good luck!


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Dating Tips Online - The limits of fidelity

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Dating Tips Online - The “curse” of being single

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