An Introductory Guide on Your First Date Experience with Hot Girls

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Dating Tips Online: Mastering the Art of Apologizing

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How to Sexting – Starter Guide

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Sexting works. That’s a fact. It is the new form of foreplay that will drive her wild. The random text message in the middle of the day to perk her sexual desire. The fun banter back and forth that will make her rip her clothes off when she sees you. But the questions is: How to sexting?

For those of you who haven’t tried sexting, we are here to help you today. Today I will tell you how to start a hot sexting conversation. Take note: “Only” to start, we will tell you How to sexting in full blown on our next articles. But right now, let’s take it easy and learn how to start it in the right way where in your partner or you will enjoy. Get ready because things will get hot.

Use an oldie but a goodie. Start off by asking “what are you wearing?” This four-word phrase will get the conversation on the right track. First the feeling will be picked up if the recipient is in the proverbial mood for sex talk. Second, it’s the lead question into how graphic the sexting conversation will get.

Use simple phrases to connect. Say “oh, baby, you make me so happy” or “oh, honey, there are things I’d really like to say to you right now.” Once either of these statements are made, the recipient’s curiosity and ego will be stoked for more talk. These are easy questions with endless possibilities of a sexting conversation.

Taking the lead. After the initial questions are put out there, wait for the recipient’s response. This is a determining factor. If his or her response comes back sexually toned, it’s a go for continuing the sexting conversation.

Test the sexting waters. Interest is shown but don’t pounce on the recipient. This can easily scare them away if a domineering presence takes over or strong language offends. Don’t rush the sexting conversation once interest is shared and acknowledged. Choose words carefully. Once a mutual texting language is determined, continuing the sexting conversation should be easy. As the conversations become more frequent testing new words and phrases can be explored.

Describe the intentions. Once the sexting conversation has commenced, slip into dirty talk mode. Tell her how things will be when you meet up. Describe how her body will be ravished and desired. Tell him how he’ll feel when certain parts of his body will be touched by fingers, lips, etc. Tell him or her what you want to do and what you cant wait to do.

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Signs You’re Not on a Date with a Potential Internet Dating Partner

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When you see that quintessential date decoy, pre-meditated third wheel or whatever they are called, it lets you think of those times when you think you were out on a date, but aren't exactly sure. Here are signs to look out for to know when it’s not romantic while out with a potential Internet dating partner.

When they bring a friend

Have you ever invited a friend when out Internet dating with potential partners? Of course not, because you know better than to bring one when Internet dating. If the person you’re meeting for a date shows up with a buddy or says, “Hey, I might invite one of my friends to join us,” this person may not be too keen on spending a romantic time with you.

When they don’t offer to pay or let you pay

Generally speaking, if you’re not quite sure you’re on a date or not, when the one you’re out with offers to pay, it’s a pretty good indication you’re on a date. Otherwise, the way the bill is handled can tell you a lot of things. Here are a couple of instances to help you tell the difference:

- “Okay, let’s take a look at this You need to shell out $14.40.” This is definitely not a date.
- When you offer to pay: “Thank you! The next meal’s on me / let me buy you a drink.” Date.
“How much is it? No, stop. Here’s $14 bucks, I need $7 back.” Not a date.

When they talk about their love life

When you’re out on a date, there’s a very good chance you won’t be bringing up your crush at work or that person you’ve been flirting on Facebook. If the one you’re out with brings this up, consider yourself warned: If they are into you, the conversation should focus only on you instead of some other person they’re harboring a crush on.

When they are relaxed around you maybe a little too relaxed.

Even the most easygoing individual will do a little something extra to prepare for a date they’re pretty stoked about. For most people, this means a stylish outfit selection, careful application of makeup and a series of interesting conversation topics. And for others, this means simply taking a bath.

If your date shows up looking unkempt, straight out of bed and quite distracted, it’s very likely they haven’t spent the last couple of hours preparing themselves mentally and physically for the date. Here are a few things to take note of so they can help clue you in if it’s really a date: Are they intently focused on you, engaging you in conversation and clearly putting a lot of effort in it? Or are they slouched over, ill-mannered and generally not making even a hint of effort?

This can be quite tricky because many people have laissez faire personalities. However, almost everyone behaves differently on a date compared to those times when they hang out with their friends. A good indicator if it’s a romantic outing or not is how much your date appears to be trying.

When you don’t know if they’re interested at the end

If a date goes well, most people would want make this clear. If they aren’t bold enough to make a move, they will usually say something to let the other party know, saying things like, “I really had a great time” or “let me know if you want to hit up that new bar.”


When you see that quintessential date decoy, pre-meditated third wheel or whatever they are called, it lets you think of those times when you think you were out on a date, but aren't exactly sure. Here are signs to look out for to know when it's not romantic while out with a potential Internet dating partner.


· When they bring a friend


Have you ever invited a friend when out Internet dating with potential partners? Of course not, because you know better than to bring one when Internet dating. If the person you're meeting for a date shows up with a buddy or says, Hey, I might invite one of my friends to join us, this person may not be too keen on spending a romantic time with you.


· When they don't offer to pay or let you pay


Generally speaking, if you're not quite sure you're on a date or not, when the one you're out with offers to pay, it's a pretty good indication you're on a date. Otherwise, the way the bill is handled can tell you a lot of things. Here are a couple of instances to help you tell the difference:


- Okay, let's take a look at this You need to shell out $14.40. This is definitely not a date.

- When you offer to pay: Thank you! The next meal's on me / let me buy you a drink. Date.

How much is it? No, stop. Here's $14 bucks, I need $7 back. Not a date.


· When they talk about their love life


When you're out on a date, there's a very good chance you won't be bringing up your crush at work or that person you've been flirting on Facebook. If the one you're out with brings this up, consider yourself warned: If they are into you, the conversation should focus only on you instead of some other person they're harboring a crush on.


· When they are relaxed around you' maybe a little too relaxed.


Even the most easygoing individual will do a little something extra to prepare for a date they're pretty stoked about. For most people, this means a stylish outfit selection, careful application of makeup and a series of interesting conversation topics. And for others, this means simply taking a bath.


If your date shows up looking unkempt, straight out of bed and quite distracted, it's very likely they haven't spent the last couple of hours preparing themselves mentally and physically for the date. Here are a few things to take note of so they can help clue you in if it's really a date: Are they intently focused on you, engaging you in conversation and clearly putting a lot of effort in it? Or are they slouched over, ill-mannered and generally not making even a hint of effort?


This can be quite tricky because many people have laissez faire personalities. However, almost everyone behaves differently on a date compared to those times when they hang out with their friends. A good indicator if it's a romantic outing or not is how much your date appears to be trying.


· When you don't know if they're interested at the end


If a date goes well, most people would want make this clear. If they aren't bold enough to make a move, they will usually say something to let the other party know, saying things like, I really had a great time or let me know if you want to hit up that new bar.

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Taboo Adult Sex Equals Super Hot Adult Sex

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At some point in a girl’s life, she has had a thing for someone in the “thou shalt not touch” category her sorority sister’s ex, her best friend’s brother and has, according to the rules of our polite norms, done everything to stay away.  But if you think she wouldn’t dare cross that line, think again.  Due to its forbidden nature, the level of hotness from illicit hookups is often off the charts.  And when done right, the rewards can be worth all the risks.

     The Girl:  Your Roommate

I know a few couples who started out as roommates, which is solid evidence that this challenge can be taken on.  However, this can also stand as a warning:  Things can go from nothing to relationship status fast.  But if it’s just easy adult sex you’re after, a coed roommate can be a jackpot.  If in the event that you’re not too cordial with your roomie, it’s still easy to start getting intimate after a night out.

The Move:  Adjust to her schedule so you can have time to bond.  Does she get up early in the morning to do Pilates?  Wake up to make coffee.  If she likes to watch “The Voice,” start making it your new show.

Danger Element:  Any awkwardness can only last as long as your lease.

     The Girl:  Your Girlfriend’s Sister

It’s a major guilt factor to destroy a blood bond, but the good news is it’s very difficult to do.  Younger siblings are likely to have a chip on their shoulder from many years of comparison to the big sister, so a good strategy involves telling her how smart, gorgeous, and funny she is and you might be in for a treat.  Or she just might be psycho, in which case you won’t have to do much.

The Move:  Sibs can be ferociously competitive, so work on that and just hope it’s worth all the ensuing chaos.

Danger Element:  Cross the sisters and you might have to deal with the father.

     The Girl:  Your Intern

Having adult sex with a colleague is not uncommon, but it is much riskier when she is under your company position.  Still, you’re in luck because women are so into men who are in a position of power.  Moreover, the inherent possibility for scandal can actually be a turn on for many women.  She may even want people to find out because it can make her feel superior over her colleagues that her boss took a huge risk to choose her almost felt like approval for a job well done.

The Move:  Make her feel like she’s part of the group:  Ask her out along with more established coworkers, and give her legitimate work to do.  However, check company policy first nobody wants to be labeled as a harassing scumbag.

Danger Element:  Smokin’ hot assistant versus steady employment.  Hmmm

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How Free Casual Sex in Bathrooms Became the New One-Night Stand

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Free casual sex in public places isn’t exactly a new phenomenon. Ask the members of the Mile High Club. However, this novelty practice seems to be developing into something more common one that makes the regular one-night stand seem unusual.



David, an aspiring Wall Street lawyer in his early 40s who asked not to be tagged with his real name, is about to propose to his girlfriend. He considers free casual sex in restaurant bathrooms the modern equivalent of forbidden trysts. “I’m almost married, so bathrooms are more like motels for me.”



Michael Kimmel, who is the author of “Guyland: The Inner World of Men, 18 – 26, says propagation of needed instantaneous free casual sex shows that both straight men and women are now appropriating what was then perceived as homosexual behavior. “In the gay culture,” says Kimmel, “there is the idea that you can hit a bar, have free casual sex, zip up, and then have a beer. Now, even women are having free casual sex like their male counterparts do sex for sex’s sake. It’s way easier for both straight and gay men to have sex whenever they want to.”



Shelly, a New York real estate broker in her 30s, provided support to Kimmel’s theory with her own story. Her bathroom taste focuses on a new aspect of stall sex: wealth. She isn’t defiling the bathroom stalls of local dive bars; she’s doing it in the classiest restaurants in Manhattan. “The stalls at Nobu in West 57th are the best,” she says. “You can lean over the sink and watch yourself in the mirror as you do the dirty deed.”



At velvet-rope clubs, like the Plumm in New York, stall sex is a privilege not only the wealthy take pleasure in but also those with preferred customer status. There is one exclusive room at the Plumm that has been specifically designed to hide stall fornicators. According to club owner Noel Ashman, they have a VIP bathroom that goes through the kitchen for its members with a special key that provides entry. When asked if sex really happens there, an unconcerned Ashman says, “I suppose it does.”



Amy Sacco, club owner of celebrity infested Bungalow 8, is similarly undaunted by the practice, although, she takes note of a potential hassle. “It’s no surprise if people are having sex in my bathrooms mine are divine,” she says. “But hopefully they all make it fast I hate it when the lines starts to get long.”



Free casual sex in public places isn’t exactly a new phenomenon. Ask the members of the Mile High Club. However, this novelty practice seems to be developing into something more common one that makes the regular one-night stand seem unusual.



David, an aspiring Wall Street lawyer in his early 40s who asked not to be tagged with his real name, is about to propose to his girlfriend. He considers free casual sex in restaurant bathrooms the modern equivalent of forbidden trysts. “I’m almost married, so bathrooms are more like motels for me.”



Michael Kimmel, who is the author of “Guyland: The Inner World of Men, 18 – 26, says propagation of needed instantaneous free casual sex shows that both straight men and women are now appropriating what was then perceived as homosexual behavior. “In the gay culture,” says Kimmel, “there is the idea that you can hit a bar, have free casual sex, zip up, and then have a beer. Now, even women are having free casual sex like their male counterparts do sex for sex’s sake. It’s way easier for both straight and gay men to have sex whenever they want to.”



Shelly, a New York real estate broker in her 30s, provided support to Kimmel’s theory with her own story. Her bathroom taste focuses on a new aspect of stall sex: wealth. She isn’t defiling the bathroom stalls of local dive bars; she’s doing it in the classiest restaurants in Manhattan. “The stalls at Nobu in West 57th are the best,” she says. “You can lean over the sink and watch yourself in the mirror as you do the dirty deed.”



At velvet-rope clubs, like the Plumm in New York, stall sex is a privilege not only the wealthy take pleasure in but also those with preferred customer status. There is one exclusive room at the Plumm that has been specifically designed to hide stall fornicators. According to club owner Noel Ashman, they have a VIP bathroom that goes through the kitchen for its members with a special key that provides entry. When asked if sex really happens there, an unconcerned Ashman says, “I suppose it does.”



Amy Sacco, club owner of celebrity infested Bungalow 8, is similarly undaunted by the practice, although, she takes note of a potential hassle. “It’s no surprise if people are having sex in my bathrooms mine are divine,” she says. “But hopefully they all make it fast I hate it when the lines starts to get long.”

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Reasons Why Halloween Is the Best Time to Go on a Date Hookup

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Halloween is your last chance to go on a date hookup before the “cuffing season” begins. Cuffing season is the time when you “hole up” for the winter, making you more likely to end up locked up than on a date hookup. So, get your “Vampire Diaries” inspired costumes covered in fake blood for these top reasons why Halloween can be the easiest holiday to go on a date hookup.

• Sexy Costumes

This is the only day of the year when seriously skanky costumes are completely allowed. It gives flirty girls the green light to rock in sexy nurse outfits, vampire bride corsets or French maid costumes. Skip on being a toilet paper mummy because this is all about stockings and stripper heels. Get ready for that girl next door, your buddy’s sister or even the receptionist at the library to suddenly look smoking-hot.

• Sexy Alter Ego

It shouldn’t be just the girls who can get into the spirit of fun and frivolity. Halloween is the perfect opportunity to go from super geek to god for one night. Leave your academic books at the door and go as your favorite role model for the night. Be a dashing James Bond with the girls or a charming Jack Sparrow at the dance floor. And when in doubt, wear a mask ala-Phantom of the Opera and go for a make out session in those dark corners.

• Role-Playing

All that dressing up in costumes, drinking and partying amps your chances of those girls you lust for to role-play. Yes, you may have been battling through fierce resistance in making your naughty nurse fantasies happen with your girlfriend all year, but come Halloween, oh, it’s on! Women are more liberated, so they enjoy dressing up and being in character. Dress as Hugh Hefner, look for a bunny and reap the benefits.

• Sexy Parties

Forget playing pool at your local sports bar. Halloween is an event which guarantees fun parties, booze and fancy dresses. So, make the most out of it. If you don’t have a party to go to yet that promises scantily clad women in costumes, loads of blood red vodka, and “Sex and the City” inspired games, throw your own shindig.

• Sexy Games

Truth or Bare, Pass the Orange, Plant the Kiss on the Lips instead of Pin the Tail on the Donkey, and Strip Twister. These are the kind of games you can play on Halloween. I’m pretty sure you can think of naughtier variations.

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Adult Dating Pointers You Must Know

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Since adult dating has a lot of potential for disastrous situations, they should be calling it “playing in a minefield.” To help you get through it unscathed, here are adult dating pointers to serve as a guide when going out.

• Rule number one: Chemistry outranks everything else. Even if he chattered on too much about his Prius or had a piece of meat stuck between his teeth, if his kiss blew you away, he deserves a second date.
• Conversely, it doesn’t matter if he’s the hottest, wealthiest, and funniest Ryan Goslingest man ever, if liplocking with him gives you the Willies, cut your losses and run for the hills.
• When you finally meet up with a guy you connected with at an online adult dating website in a café, it’s alright to tell your friends you “met at a café.” It’s not even considered a lie—well, sort of.
• It’s okay to be superficial. If he meets up with you wearing a fanny pack or in jeans showing his butt crack, pretend you have an emergency and split. Hint: Tell him it’s a girl thing and he won’t ask anymore questions.
• Every time a buddy sets you up for a date, always remember to ask her what she thinks are the things you have in common with the potential partner, besides the fact that you are both single.
• FYI: If he spends even a short time during your date to respond to work emails on his smart phone, it is very likely he wouldn’t be the most attentive boyfriend.
• On the other hand, if you spend even a short time during your date to respond to your work emails, don’t expect to receive an invitation to go out on a second date.
• Be wary of the sly guy that asks questions so he can answer. Sly guy: So, what are the most awesome places you have been to? You: Oh, probably the Baham—. Sly guy: The best I’ve been to so far are Paris, Africa, Milan, London…
• There are a lot of people in between jobs right now, but a guy who blames The Man as his reason for being unemployed is most likely retarded.
• If you can’t recall anything clever he said or don’t find him even remotely interesting and you weren’t having drinks, you’re probably not that into him.
• He probably is just being polite, but whenever a guy offers you a breath mint, always take them, just in case.
• Going out on dates are supposed to be fun, so when you’re out in the middle of one and you start daydreaming about watching Friends reruns at home, give yourself a break.
• Don’t stress yourself out and think too much about that first kiss moment. Just smile, say your goodbyes and affectionately squeeze his hand, letting your fingers linger. This is his cue to make a move. If he doesn’t, you can make your exit with zero awkwardness.

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