An Introductory Guide on Your First Date Experience with Hot Girls

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Dating Tips Online: Mastering the Art of Apologizing

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How to Sexting – Starter Guide

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Sexting works. That’s a fact. It is the new form of foreplay that will drive her wild. The random text message in the middle of the day to perk her sexual desire. The fun banter back and forth that will make her rip her clothes off when she sees you. But the questions is: How to sexting?

For those of you who haven’t tried sexting, we are here to help you today. Today I will tell you how to start a hot sexting conversation. Take note: “Only” to start, we will tell you How to sexting in full blown on our next articles. But right now, let’s take it easy and learn how to start it in the right way where in your partner or you will enjoy. Get ready because things will get hot.

Use an oldie but a goodie. Start off by asking “what are you wearing?” This four-word phrase will get the conversation on the right track. First the feeling will be picked up if the recipient is in the proverbial mood for sex talk. Second, it’s the lead question into how graphic the sexting conversation will get.

Use simple phrases to connect. Say “oh, baby, you make me so happy” or “oh, honey, there are things I’d really like to say to you right now.” Once either of these statements are made, the recipient’s curiosity and ego will be stoked for more talk. These are easy questions with endless possibilities of a sexting conversation.

Taking the lead. After the initial questions are put out there, wait for the recipient’s response. This is a determining factor. If his or her response comes back sexually toned, it’s a go for continuing the sexting conversation.

Test the sexting waters. Interest is shown but don’t pounce on the recipient. This can easily scare them away if a domineering presence takes over or strong language offends. Don’t rush the sexting conversation once interest is shared and acknowledged. Choose words carefully. Once a mutual texting language is determined, continuing the sexting conversation should be easy. As the conversations become more frequent testing new words and phrases can be explored.

Describe the intentions. Once the sexting conversation has commenced, slip into dirty talk mode. Tell her how things will be when you meet up. Describe how her body will be ravished and desired. Tell him how he’ll feel when certain parts of his body will be touched by fingers, lips, etc. Tell him or her what you want to do and what you cant wait to do.

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Find a Fuck Buddy – The Best Ones

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In most cases, fuck buddies are just not planned. It just seem to happen by itself. But if you really want to find a fuck buddy, then here are the types of fuck buddies we recommend you should find tonight.

Professional Women Are The Best

I’ve noticed that the best types of people to get as fuck-buddies are the professional career men or women. They’re usually too busy for a relationship and have too much work-related stress for them to want sexual relief only. That’s where you come in. Most of these women are absolutely hot in bed. They might not be as hot when you see them at their office or in their career suit, but in bed they transform. And this is what makes them more interesting. Most of these men too can give you lots of financial support in exchange for the bed action.

With a Ring Means Exciting

If you’re tired of the usual type of fuck-buddy, when you’re in a lounge and you see a group of women together, then you may want to approach the one with the wedding ring. Though some will tell you they’re married and they won’t be into you, there are odd couples that just may want some extra excitement in their life and is looking for a threesome. There are also hot and horny husband or wives that are just having problems with each other and you can be there to make them happy and satisfy their needs. Make sure to pursue married people with caution though and realize that there may be severe consequences to your actions. My rule of thumb is to find out whether they have kids or not, because a man or woman with children is where I set my boundaries. Kids equals long-term mindfucks for you, so try to stay away from those. But being a back-door to a childless married man or woman is all good in my books. These tend to be the most exciting type of fuck-buddies, but make sure not to get too attached.

Friends With Benefits

If you’ve had a friend who you know you don’t have real feelings for nor does he/she have any feelings for you as well, it might be nice to get some benefits from them. This might be the easiest type of person to convert into a fuck-buddy. Get drunk one day, bring up the subject, see their reaction, and take it from there. If they are totally repulsed by the idea then blame it all on the booze the next day, and if she’s into it then you’re ticket is good and you might as well go for the ride and be fuck buddies whenever you need a hit.

Unlike love, the characteristic about fuck buddies is that there is no commitment, no first impressions and definitely no heartfelt gifts. Of course, there has to be a wee bit of lustful flirting and mutual attraction. Other than that, there’s nothing at all that should be committed in fuck buddies. So remember that and you will be on your way to have great fuck buddy experiences.

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Free Online Dating Tips Sans Dinner and a Movie

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Do You Think You Need a Local Sex Coach?

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How Free Casual Sex in Bathrooms Became the New One-Night Stand

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Free casual sex in public places isn’t exactly a new phenomenon. Ask the members of the Mile High Club. However, this novelty practice seems to be developing into something more common one that makes the regular one-night stand seem unusual.



David, an aspiring Wall Street lawyer in his early 40s who asked not to be tagged with his real name, is about to propose to his girlfriend. He considers free casual sex in restaurant bathrooms the modern equivalent of forbidden trysts. “I’m almost married, so bathrooms are more like motels for me.”



Michael Kimmel, who is the author of “Guyland: The Inner World of Men, 18 – 26, says propagation of needed instantaneous free casual sex shows that both straight men and women are now appropriating what was then perceived as homosexual behavior. “In the gay culture,” says Kimmel, “there is the idea that you can hit a bar, have free casual sex, zip up, and then have a beer. Now, even women are having free casual sex like their male counterparts do sex for sex’s sake. It’s way easier for both straight and gay men to have sex whenever they want to.”



Shelly, a New York real estate broker in her 30s, provided support to Kimmel’s theory with her own story. Her bathroom taste focuses on a new aspect of stall sex: wealth. She isn’t defiling the bathroom stalls of local dive bars; she’s doing it in the classiest restaurants in Manhattan. “The stalls at Nobu in West 57th are the best,” she says. “You can lean over the sink and watch yourself in the mirror as you do the dirty deed.”



At velvet-rope clubs, like the Plumm in New York, stall sex is a privilege not only the wealthy take pleasure in but also those with preferred customer status. There is one exclusive room at the Plumm that has been specifically designed to hide stall fornicators. According to club owner Noel Ashman, they have a VIP bathroom that goes through the kitchen for its members with a special key that provides entry. When asked if sex really happens there, an unconcerned Ashman says, “I suppose it does.”



Amy Sacco, club owner of celebrity infested Bungalow 8, is similarly undaunted by the practice, although, she takes note of a potential hassle. “It’s no surprise if people are having sex in my bathrooms mine are divine,” she says. “But hopefully they all make it fast I hate it when the lines starts to get long.”



Free casual sex in public places isn’t exactly a new phenomenon. Ask the members of the Mile High Club. However, this novelty practice seems to be developing into something more common one that makes the regular one-night stand seem unusual.



David, an aspiring Wall Street lawyer in his early 40s who asked not to be tagged with his real name, is about to propose to his girlfriend. He considers free casual sex in restaurant bathrooms the modern equivalent of forbidden trysts. “I’m almost married, so bathrooms are more like motels for me.”



Michael Kimmel, who is the author of “Guyland: The Inner World of Men, 18 – 26, says propagation of needed instantaneous free casual sex shows that both straight men and women are now appropriating what was then perceived as homosexual behavior. “In the gay culture,” says Kimmel, “there is the idea that you can hit a bar, have free casual sex, zip up, and then have a beer. Now, even women are having free casual sex like their male counterparts do sex for sex’s sake. It’s way easier for both straight and gay men to have sex whenever they want to.”



Shelly, a New York real estate broker in her 30s, provided support to Kimmel’s theory with her own story. Her bathroom taste focuses on a new aspect of stall sex: wealth. She isn’t defiling the bathroom stalls of local dive bars; she’s doing it in the classiest restaurants in Manhattan. “The stalls at Nobu in West 57th are the best,” she says. “You can lean over the sink and watch yourself in the mirror as you do the dirty deed.”



At velvet-rope clubs, like the Plumm in New York, stall sex is a privilege not only the wealthy take pleasure in but also those with preferred customer status. There is one exclusive room at the Plumm that has been specifically designed to hide stall fornicators. According to club owner Noel Ashman, they have a VIP bathroom that goes through the kitchen for its members with a special key that provides entry. When asked if sex really happens there, an unconcerned Ashman says, “I suppose it does.”



Amy Sacco, club owner of celebrity infested Bungalow 8, is similarly undaunted by the practice, although, she takes note of a potential hassle. “It’s no surprise if people are having sex in my bathrooms mine are divine,” she says. “But hopefully they all make it fast I hate it when the lines starts to get long.”

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Reasons Why Halloween Is the Best Time to Go on a Date Hookup

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Halloween is your last chance to go on a date hookup before the “cuffing season” begins. Cuffing season is the time when you “hole up” for the winter, making you more likely to end up locked up than on a date hookup. So, get your “Vampire Diaries” inspired costumes covered in fake blood for these top reasons why Halloween can be the easiest holiday to go on a date hookup.

• Sexy Costumes

This is the only day of the year when seriously skanky costumes are completely allowed. It gives flirty girls the green light to rock in sexy nurse outfits, vampire bride corsets or French maid costumes. Skip on being a toilet paper mummy because this is all about stockings and stripper heels. Get ready for that girl next door, your buddy’s sister or even the receptionist at the library to suddenly look smoking-hot.

• Sexy Alter Ego

It shouldn’t be just the girls who can get into the spirit of fun and frivolity. Halloween is the perfect opportunity to go from super geek to god for one night. Leave your academic books at the door and go as your favorite role model for the night. Be a dashing James Bond with the girls or a charming Jack Sparrow at the dance floor. And when in doubt, wear a mask ala-Phantom of the Opera and go for a make out session in those dark corners.

• Role-Playing

All that dressing up in costumes, drinking and partying amps your chances of those girls you lust for to role-play. Yes, you may have been battling through fierce resistance in making your naughty nurse fantasies happen with your girlfriend all year, but come Halloween, oh, it’s on! Women are more liberated, so they enjoy dressing up and being in character. Dress as Hugh Hefner, look for a bunny and reap the benefits.

• Sexy Parties

Forget playing pool at your local sports bar. Halloween is an event which guarantees fun parties, booze and fancy dresses. So, make the most out of it. If you don’t have a party to go to yet that promises scantily clad women in costumes, loads of blood red vodka, and “Sex and the City” inspired games, throw your own shindig.

• Sexy Games

Truth or Bare, Pass the Orange, Plant the Kiss on the Lips instead of Pin the Tail on the Donkey, and Strip Twister. These are the kind of games you can play on Halloween. I’m pretty sure you can think of naughtier variations.

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Tell Tale Signs Your Adult Dating Partner Is Going to Be Fat

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I’m not saying that there is something wrong with it, because people say that majority of heavyset people are jolly. I would have to agree with that statement for those chubbies who embrace their extra poundage. However, for most, packing in that extra weight can be quite worrisome. Studies show that obesity is the number one killer in America. Unless you’re a gymaholic or a genetic freak of nature, gaining weight is an inevitable consequence of aging. You start to get lazy and you lose motivation. But if your objective is to avoid this from happening to you, and at the same time looking for an adult dating partner who will not embarrass you, here is a helpful guide in determining if your girl will start to balloon.

• She’s got fat genes (No, not Phat Jeans)

Check your adult dating partner’s mom before buying the total package. If she looks like a cow, you might need to move along. The milk may be free, but you really wouldn’t want to buy this cow. Run, far away, before she eats your couch.

• She owns a lot of leggings

She has leggings; shitloads of them. There is only one reason why a woman has to wear leggings all the time—the size of their tummy can’t be controlled so they need elastic to hold their gargantuan gut in. Rummage through your woman’s dresser and when you see more than three pairs of leggings, you’re pretty much screwed.

• All you activities revolve around food

You only go out on dates to dine. This can be both your fault. You should’ve done something of the outdoors and athletic type instead of always going out to eat in the beginning of your adult dating phase. If you keep letting her shove food down her throat, you have nobody else to blame but yourself. If she keeps on indulging, then she obviously enjoys the free dinners, and soon enough it will be too late to turn back the caloric clock. Get your asses of the couch and do something—anything—or you’ll both be fat.

• She always orders salads

She constantly orders salads when you start adult dating. Okay, let me explain something to you guys—no one eats that much salad. NOBODY. She is lying to her teeth if wants to show her dainty manner before you invite her over your place for a romantic home-cooked meal you have prepared for her. Once she let’s herself loose and starts devouring every steak in your fridge, you will regret ignoring this sign.

• She has no need to work out now that she has a boyfriend

You have been adult dating for a while now and she has become lazy to hit the gym. Most of us do let ourselves go after putting up such a fine show the first few months of dating, but this is quite inexcusable and promotes false advertising. If you start to notice your girl slacking off, chain her to a treadmill and run it on high. If she’s still running after an hour, you know you’ve got yourself a champ.

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Tell Tale Signs Your Adult Dating Partner Used to be a Stripper or Porn Actor

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Scent Preferences of Women When Adult Dating Vary Per Area

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Adult Dating Milestones Guys Fear

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When adult dating, guys look forward to the first kiss, the first “home run,” etc. However, some “firsts” are a bit trickier. Here are a few tips on going through them when adult dating.

• Impressing Your Buddies

Mixing your guy with your friends is like drinking tequila and jumping in trampolines. It could be totally awesome or it could go the other way and be a disaster. However, a little prep work can help everything go smoothly.

• Dealing with Your Inexplicable Distress

Maybe you get into a bad mood every month, maybe around holidays or when working through an office deadline, but guys don’t know that yet. They always think if they set you off somehow. Generally, when guys sense they’re in trouble, they tend to pull away, neglecting women when they most need the support. Don’t keep guys guessing, so a quick explanation that’s straight to the point can keep your guy from worrying he might be responsible for you being crabby.

• Literally Sleeping Together

The first time you doze off into a sleepover devoid of sex can be weird for a guy. You begin asking questions like, has your sex life lost its fire and fizzled out? Have you lost your mojo and think you’re not all that between the sheets anymore? This is one of those times for you to stretch your understanding a little further. Tenderly cuddle your way to dreamland, and then sent him a text message the next day saying you wish you hadn’t slept because you now strongly desire for him even more than usual. That’s the way to do it! And then, pounce on him when you get the opportunity to erase any lingering doubts.

• Getting Caught Ogling Over Somebody Else

What girls need to know when dating guys is we’re only human, so it’s natural to make mistakes. There will be some instances that a guy will check out a waitress in her short skirt, perhaps because he hasn’t seen one in months, and get caught by his girl. Surely, it’s going to be hell for him when she gives him a hard time.

Noticing other women who are attractive is simply an instinct, and in no way intended to insult you. If you guy gets absurdly rude about it, it’s only right to call him out and demand an apology. However, losing it on him will just make you look jealous and insecure. Here’s a better ploy: Give her a knowing grin and make a comment like, “She’s cute, huh?” He definitely knows he’s busted, but he doesn’t feel like he’s guilty of doing you wrong.

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What Not to Say to a Thirty Something Woman from a One Night Stand Website

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When looking for matches in a one night stand website, you can’t help to come across single women in their thirties. It can be quite challenging for a woman to be in her thirties. They get the feeling of accomplishment somehow, but think it is not yet enough. This feeling of “enough” is kind of hard to explain, but it may be the single most important thing that can define women in their thirties. “Enough” is not measured by the money they earn, the degree they have achieved, the number of shoes they have in their collection, or having babies—it’s something bigger.

For women who hit their thirties, they start to see two clear paths that they can take: one leads to career, and one leads to family. When some women turn thirty, this is the only time they realize the gravity of the situation being presented to them—how do they it to have both?

To give you a guide in hooking up with women in their thirties from a one night stand website, here is a guide of what NOT to say when trying to connect with them.

• “Ah, the big three-o!”

For women turning thirty, it is a milestone with no good reason. It’s just a seemingly random and frivolous occasion that makes you re-evaluate everything that you have, all the things you’ve done, all that you are, and all you wish to be. It may be serious stuff, but frankly annoying.

• “Women are like fine wine, they get better with age.”

Any jokes or statements metaphorically comparing women to fine wine should be declared illegal. Turning thirty is not the same as turning twenty-one, so this isn’t really cool.

• “Is that your biological clock I hear ticking?”

Any mention of the biological clock is a big no-no. Women are going to tell you they don’t really think about it, but in reality they all do. They are either trying to ignore it or are totally obsessing about it—or maybe a combination of both. Since they have babies on their minds during this stage, it’s not a good idea to ask about being married and planning to have a family.

• “You should really start looking after yourself.”

Do not suddenly be condescending about their health like they were eating poorly before they hit thirty. They made it to their thirties, so don’t patronize them.

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Ways to Initiate Physical Contact When Hookup Dating

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One cannot overlook the significance of making your first physical contact with a woman when hookup dating. Whether you are still in the early stages of hookup dating or a first meeting with a girl, physical contact is a good indication of progress. And once you’ve crossed that line, you can work on increasing the frequency, length and level of intensity of such contact. There are a variety of ways to break the touch barrier. So if you are wondering how to initiate such a move when out hookup dating, here is a short list of the best ways to do that.

• If she’s feeling cold, take her hands and rub with yours – This may be a bit cheesy, but when executed properly with a little irony, it can make for good laughs and help establish a connection. It can also send a message saying you can offer a warm and safe place for them when they feel cold.
• Brush an eyelash off her face – This is something reminiscent of those annoying romcoms, but when done properly, taking out a tiny piece of hair from her face can have a surprising effect on a woman. It can also say you’re looking out for them and even the smallest thing can’t get by you. She may laugh it off, but she will surely enjoy the skin contact.
• Hold her hand to lead her someplace – This is one of the best displays of alpha male behavior, which is also a relatively low-risk way to initiate physical contact and can be quite easy to pull off. It exhibits leadership, being protective and confidence.
• Read her palm – One of the oldest in the book, this move is full of possibilities for bold wit. When she’s looking at you while you focus on reading her palm, you can say a variety of flirtatious lines to make her laugh.
• Make contact when dancing – The beauty of this is since you are dancing, you are practically licensed to pretty much put your hands all over her. Well, almost but that shouldn’t stop you from putting your hands on her hips and get closer.
• Offer a massage – If she looks tired or stressed, position yourself to offer a back rub or a shoulder massage. She’ll be thankful for the idea and it’s the perfect time to introduce your hands and make physical contact. Just make sure you know what you are doing, because nothing spells disaster than like applying the wrong pressure on a pain-sensitive part of her body.

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Top Turn Offs for Women When Hookup Dating

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A single man’s goal is to land a single woman when they go hookup dating. However, no matter how overly charming, highly attractive and perfectly witty you are, women can be turned off instantly like a light bulb in a flick of a switch. Here are a few things to avoid when hookup dating with a woman so you can stop yourself from turning them off.

• Being overly intoxicated – Under the right circumstances, it is probably alright to be a little out of control when drinking—like maybe in the confines of your own home or at a bachelor’s party. Being loud and obnoxious or stumbling, slurring your words and falling all over the place are not the qualities that women go for when hookup dating.

• Negative vibes – On your first meet up, avoid throwing playful insults and just try to be sweet and charming. Refrain from criticizing other people too, even if your intention is to give her a compliment. Don’t say, “That girl’s legs are short and stubby. Yours are much nicer.” Negative statements can show you are mean, a snob, picky or simply an idiot.

• Bad pickup lines – This cannot be emphasized more. Delivering cheesy one liners when trying to pick up women just shows your lack of creativity, imagination and romance. The best way to do this is to show and make her feel you are sincerely interested, or else you’ll just be driving her away.
• Too much cologne – It is a given that you should smell good when you’re with a woman. A fragrant aftershave, cologne or deodorant is a great way to attract a female, but one spray too much can be offensive to a woman’s sense of smell.

• Expletives – A man with a dirty mouth does not make a good first impression. It is important to be a gentleman on the onset of a relationship. A potty mouth is a sign of awful manners, which is someone women wouldn’t want to spend time with.

• Bad breath – You have been pulling all the stops all night and they all seem to work on her, but you can put all your efforts in vain with bad breath. Good oral hygiene is extremely essential. Chipped and rotting teeth, chapped lips and halitosis will send her running for the hills. If your mouth isn’t clean, it will make her wonder which parts of your body aren’t too.

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Top Signs the Girl from a One Night Stand Website Is into You

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First impressions on people are generally based on non-verbal signs. According to the Social Issues Research Center, human communication is made up of 55% non-verbal, 38% using signals, and 7% has anything to do with what you actually say. This leads to the conclusion that to know if a girl from a one night stand website is into you, you should keenly observe her non-verbal signals. Here are proven ways that girls consciously, and sometimes unwittingly, let you know they are interested. Look out for them and watch your dating life unfold.

• Touching and flicking of hair – For more than four decades, scientists have been studying non-verbal behaviors of women to let men know they are interested. One essential category of flirting is called kinetic gestures, which includes the oldest trick in the book—the proverbial hair toss. But while a casual and seductive hair toss can be a signal of letting you know she enjoys your company, too much can mean she’s just nervous or not sure about you.

• Licking of lips – This is another kinetic gesture that girls do unwittingly to show they’re into you. This sign may be an indication that they want to draw attention to their lips and may have the desire to liplock. You should exercise caution though, to avoid creating an embarrassing and awkward moment. Too much lip licking can be an indication of a bad habit.

• Teasing – When we were kids, the one way of showing a girl that you liked her was by throwing insults her way or stuffing dirt in her clothes. Now, consider teasing the adult version of this behavior. Don’t be too sensitive about it though. That girl you want to hook up with from a one night stand website might just be testing your level of interest.

• A friendly response to your messages – A curt response to your messages is one way of shutting you down. However, a friendly and smiling response is a sign of wanting to have further conversation. To get quality time to your next search on a one night stand website, ask questions that are easy to answer so they can respond simply. Through their responses, you’ll know if they are interested.

• She shares back – Once you have a good conversation going on, take it to the next level by sharing something a bit intimate to her. You should keep one thing in mind though—the less you know her, the more positive and less personal the information you should share, unless you want to scare her off. If this is reciprocated, it is a sign she sees you in a more favorable light. Capitalize.

• Open postures – This applies to both men and women. We send signals by changing the posture and orientation or our bodies. If she is turned away from you, especially at a 90 degree angle, this is a sign she is non-verbally shutting off your attempts to get to know her. Her arms crossed on her chest and when she is trying to lean away from you are also similar signs of this. Receptive signs show postures that are open and welcoming like having her torso face you, arms uncrossed and her body leaning towards you.

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Tips When Dating Through an Online Dating Web site

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If you have decided to make the jump and have opened your doors to dating through an online dating web site, here are four very helpful tips to make a good impression and bring your A game.

1. Use a mature screen name.

BigLebowski9inch may sound clever to you, but it’s highly unlikely SweetPea26 will want nothing to do with a guy who feels the need to let everybody know at an online dating website, especially when you're probably not even close to even a four.

Have fun and be creative with your screen name. However, refrain from being arrogant or cocky. Avoid using names that refer to wealth or immaturity. Select names that are catchy and easy to remember. You should think of a name that gives an indication of who you are or what you are all about. For instance, if you play in a band and are a culinary expert, your screen name could be BassPlayingChef. Right off the bat, you get a sense of what this person is all about. Remember that this is a name that can stick to you as a nickname, so don’t go for names like MommasBoy or IAmKingKong.

2. Use a nice high-quality profile picture.

An online dating web site profile without a photo says two things: You are either unattractive or you’re in a relationship. Of course, people looking for a potential partner would want to see your face, so shots with sunglasses and/or headgear that may hide even part of your face might as well not even be displayed. A cap can make her reach an assumption that you may have a balding problem that you are trying to hide. Have someone else take your picture for you, because a self-portrait screams desperate loneliness.

Upload a current headshot and a full-body portrait of yourself. Kick it up a notch with a picture of you laughing. Generally, people make their decision based on the primary photo. There are online dating websites where you can upload up to 20 photos or more, so you can include a variety photos that can showcase your personality. Just make sure your primary profile photo is an accurate representation of what you really look like.

3. Write a clever profile.

Don’t sound apologetic. People don’t need you to tell them you’re not a writer or you’re not good in writing things about yourself. Be positive; let your character and personality shine through.

Women are generally more emotional than visual, so try to describe the many aspects of your personality as you can. Injecting humor and a little self-deprecation can be endearing. It is also a good way to get noticed.

4. Always be honest.

More often than not, guys lie about their height and gals about their weight. Since women take a few inches off what you put on your profile anyway, this doesn’t put you in the clear. If you’re just a 5’6” and her height requirement is at least 5’10”, just play by the rules and move on to the next. Or else, when you finally meet on your first date, get ready to be smacked in your lying little face.

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Tips on What to Say That May Lead to Free Sexting Conversations

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It is very important that what you say to a woman brings music to her ears, and not like the screeching sound a piece of chalk makes when being used to write on a blackboard. Although when trying to hookup through free sexting conversations, what she wants you to say can depend on the situation. You can always change these suggestions as you see fit. Here are our top conversation tips that can lead up to a nice free sexting exchange.

• “How did that start?”

Taking an interest on the things in her life—like her job or her hobby—that she loves to talk about is important for a first date conversation. It’s a given that women like to talk about themselves, but they also want guys to show interest in what they are into so they know you are also into them.

• “One of my dreams is to…”

Women do not only want to talk about themselves—which is contrary to popular belief; they also want to know what’s going on with you. Telling them about your dreams is a great thing to have them gain interesting insights about you, and she’ll dig the fact that you can open up to her.

• “My friends were telling me about…”

Mentioning friends telling you about something interesting in your conversations can let her know you have awesome buddies.

• “Hahaha!”

This one is as simple as it gets: The sound of your laughter will always be something she would want to hear. It gives her validation that she has a good sense of humor and you find her charming. However, don’t overdo it, and keep it genuine.

• “This reminds me of when I…”
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At times, the best way to get to know someone is through stories of personal anecdotes. So, go ahead and share an awesome experience that stands out as an unforgettable memory.

• “I had a really great time.”

At the conclusion of a first date, there is always this aura of awkwardness that hangs in the air, with both of you wondering if the other had a really good time or not. The best thing to do is simply let her know and tell her. She’ll be happy hearing it from you.

• “I’ll call you.”

Since you’re the guy, it would be nice to take the initiative and let her know you’ll call her after your date. She may have heard this line from a lot of guys she went out with, but never did get a callback. Still, it would be nice to let her know you will.

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The Only Adult Dating Rule You Must Follow

6:47 PM / Posted by datesforsex11 / comments (0)



Adult dating—or dating in general—is pretty tough. More women than men are cautious about adult dating, because most of them are not the type that are into the game-playing or rules-following aspect of it. Why should they be into it if there are people that don’t even play the same game, or follow the same rules? When this happens, it generally results in bad communication, hurt feelings and walls that are difficult to bring down.

To help you conquer this obstacle, there is one rule that everybody should know and follow. We shall call it “The Rule of Two.” This rule is not about being elusive or playing hard to get, it is about giving common courtesy and paying mutual respect, making the whole adult dating process a pleasant experience. Here is how the rule works:

In the early phase of adult dating, do not ask a person out or make vague remarks more than twice without getting a response first from that person. If she does not respond to you the first time, it may be one of the following reasons: she may be busy, she hasn’t opened her email inbox yet, her phone battery died or has poor cell reception, it takes her a little more time to respond, etc. Continuously chasing her even after putting you off doesn’t come across as persistently debonair; it makes you look like you don’t know how to read subtle signals that she’s not interested at all.

You shouldn’t take this is the wrong way though. Yes, it’s rude for her—or anyone for that matter—to be disregarded on purpose like that, but it is also rude to keep pushing yourself to get her attention even if she’s sending out different signals saying she’s not that into you. Besides, who would want to go out adult dating with someone who does not even like you back?

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Speed Hookup Dating Tips

6:46 PM / Posted by datesforsex11 / comments (0)



It’s a good thing you have finally come to terms with the fact that you are not a chick magnet, and it takes a little more effort for you to meet women. Or maybe you just haven’t dated in a while, and you need to sharpen your skills to get you back in the hookup dating game.

For those reasons, speed hookup dating is the right thing for you. By carefully thinking of the right strategy, you’re already ahead of everyone else in the game, because if you know what you are doing, those other guys aren’t exactly stiff competition.

The main concern about speed hookup dating is young and hot women go there because of two reasons: 1) some men don’t have the guts to introduce themselves under normal circumstances; 2) they just want to have a fun night-out with their girl friends.

What guys need to know is this is a prime hunting ground for the savvy dater. Women go speed hookup dating to find guys who are interesting, confident and charming. However, what people don’t realize is this is the last place you’ll find men of these kinds, because they don’t have the need to go speed hookup dating to find a woman. If you can follow some of our tips, you’re already in the winner’s circle.

• Don’t line them up – If you get fortunate enough to get a few matches, be sure to start with date number one and schedule the others at different times afterward. Around sixty percent of women go on a speed date with their friends, while 90% of guys go alone. So if you try to line up three dates that are friends in three consecutive days, they might not be impressed.

• Evaluate your performance – Didn’t make any connections? It’s time to change your strategy. Always remember it’s all about confidence and charm to catch a woman’s attention. Think about asking good questions and work on a little naughty teasing with a good story. To make you sound interesting, try learning a new language, go bungee jumping or attend a good concert.

• Don’t track her down – If you did not connect with anyone because they didn’t find you interesting, don’t even attempt to find them online or hangout somewhere near their workplace. That’s just plain creepy. Forget them and move on. Just fine tune your strategy and have another go.

• Be polite and make proper goodbyes – Almost all the guys at speed dating events stop at midsentence and awkwardly move along to the next table when their time was up. Be sure to let your date finish, look her in the eyes and tell her how nice it was to meet her.

• Do not focus on your weaknesses – You have a very short time to sell yourself, so don’t talk about how you lost your job, your exes and how you had to move back to your parents’ house.

• Think of some interesting questions to ask – Most women have been asked with the common, “Are you into sports?” Try asking them about what superpower they would like to have, what they would spend on if they win a million dollars, etc. These kinds of questions will make you stand out and help you connect with other interesting women.

• Dress up nicely – The women you’ll be meeting made efforts to look good. They are most certainly made up—waxed, polished and fragrant. Refrain from going in that old rag you call a shirt you wore yesterday. A well-fitting shirt and nice pair of shoes is necessary

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