Here is a he said/she said take on a bad first kiss on a date hookup; interesting discussion by both sides. Read on to find out.
HE SAID:
The answer to this question is an absolute and resounding yes! I will never forget my first serious kiss. I was fourteen then and had this huge crush on a girl I went to school with. And when I locked lips with her for the first time, I almost passed out. Up to this day, I can still recall the hairs on my nape stand up, my heart trying to beat out of my chest, and my knuckles turning white as I held her closer to me.
This wasn’t my first kiss. However, this was the first where I saw fireworks. And truthfully, the things that I felt then have set the bar on which I measure all my kisses I have on every date hookup to this day. You see, here’s the thing: after a first kiss, I should have a desire to kiss you some more to the point where I struggle to peel myself away from you. A good first kiss confirms the attraction between two people and validates that there is sexual chemistry. After a good first kiss, I would know if I want to spend the night in bed with you.
However, not all first kisses are great. They can be awkward, especially if it’s not the right moment or if it is forced. Still, we are all physically programmed to know the difference between a good, a bad kisser and “a tumbleweed just rolled by” liplock. If you feel constrained to give it another shot, please feel free to do so. It may cast all doubts aside. In the end thought, you must trust your instincts. If you find yourself in the company of a bad kisser, end it quickly. Just lay it out on the table and tell her the chemistry isn’t right. Whatever happens, do not prolong this ordeal—unless you are a make out master and know how to teach your partner to make the hairs at the back of your neck stand up.
SHE SAID:
A horrible first kiss isn’t much of a deal breaker for me until there is follow up second bad kiss, but I have to be honest, it’s a very rare occasion when I get impressed with a guy on a first date hookup that I’ve overlooked a terrible first kiss. And when this happens, a repeat of such revolting encounters doesn’t get me excited for a potential relationship full of the same distasteful activity.
With that being said, there is a difference between just plain bad and awkward-bad. I’ll give you a break if we’re kissing under the influence and are hitting teeth, but face-lickers, tongue eaters, and closed lips kissers need not apply. If a kiss feels like a dental procedure or a peck from grandma, I'm sure as hell not going back for seconds. Labels: find a fuck buddy, free online dating, i want to fuck, local sluts, looking for sex, women seeking men