I am of Italian descent. As you well know, this implies men with huge egos and even bigger hairy chests; I am not the exception. I’ve pretty much always dated within my kind and have never had a problem. Recently, I’ve decided to diversify my partners in sex and have found that other women are more repelled than they are attracted to all my hair. How is that possible? I’m at a crossroads here and I am torn between two worlds!
Dear Reader:
I know what the Italian “Uomo” is all about. I count a couple among my friends. I must say that as an ethnic group, you ooze an amazing self-confidence that others only wish they had. Hand in hand with that self confidence, we tend to find egos that are probably much more of a problem than I see the hairy chests posing. Could that maybe be your case? Just a bit of food for thought there. Don’t just dismiss it.
Anyhow, the whole bodily hair issue is one of pure taste, as is everything else when we’re looking for a mate. Italian women, or those of Italian descent are probably ok with it because it tends to run in most men around them growing up so they see it as a normal happening; nevertheless, I assure you there must be some who have acquired an appreciation for something different.
As far as these new experiences of yours, I’d say you’ve been unlucky in the sense that you’ve only encountered women who don’t like hair on a man because I can assure you many others will. If you want you can always find them on adult dating services. In the end though, it’s all about what makes you feel most comfortable. The great thing about hair is, it grows back. So why don’t you give waxing a try? Find a good parlor and take the plunge. It will hurt but it is temporary and the rewards infinite. Labels: adult dating services, dating as an adult, free single sites, online dating web site, online singles sites, partners in sex