Bizarre Things That Turn Him on When You Hookup

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In a recent confession, Justin Theroux said Jennifer Aniston thinks it’s hot when he breakdances. So this instinctively made us think about the odd things women do that get men all riled up when they hookup besides, well, cleavage and a nice ass. We asked guys to share those irresistible moves girls do.

”If I talk or grunt too much when we hookup and have sex, my girl will put her hand over my mouth and clamp it shut which gets me even more aroused. I like the fact that she knows what she wants and doesn’t want and has no qualms in letting me know.” – Chris

”I love how my girl hates girly drinks. She often goes for scotch or vodka on the rocks, tequila, or beer. There’s this bad-girl vibe that makes it so hot.” – Brandon

”Whenever I’m busy doing something, like being immersed in work or playing a video game, she just knows when I’m hungry. She’ll just suddenly appear with a snack right when I’m dying to have one. It’s unbelievable!” – Adrian

”I find it sexy when she gets up for work, then decides to go back to bed with me for a while.” – Jeremy

”My gorgeous wife can really get into hockey games. She instantly switches to her thick New Jersey accent and yells at the TV. And when we go to actual games, she totally trash talks. It’s absolutely awesome.” – Mark

”I find it sexy when my girl goes to bed without completely washing off her makeup and wakes up with little black smudges around her eyes. It gives her this mysterious, smokey look.” – Allan

”It may be great when a girl takes care of herself physically, but a six pack can be intimidating. A soft midsection is way more of a turn on for me because it’s feminine and womanly.” – Sam

I went out to hookup with this girl who was pretty much reserved in her everyday life. But once in a while she would put on a faux tattoo for me to find, or clip on hot pink hair extensions which drove me wild. It made me feel like I was going to bed with a different person every time.” – Warren

”I love it when my girlfriend walks through the front door after a workout at the gym. She thinks she looks gross, but I find her sweaty body and disheveled hair is so arousing.” – Matt

”I find it the hottest thing ever when a woman laughs during sex because I know she’s having fun. Dudes wouldn’t want someone who is always serious and overly sensual.” – Adam.

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Does He Hookup at Bachelor Parties?

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As females, there is always a serious twinge of anxiety when your man attends a bachelor party whether as the soon-to-be groom or just a guest you can’t help but think about what’s going to happen.

The horrific stories are endless: strippers, binge drinking, lap dances, some even hookup with prostitutes. You don’t think you’re man’s going to cross that line, but you also know that guys can make stupid decisions when egged on by his buddies. Well, here are a few facts that may be good news for girls who are attached, though it doesn’t do much good for the rest of us.

According to experts, it’s not the groom who is likely to cheat. But instead, it’s his buddies maybe because it’s their first raunchy boys’ night out in ages who might seriously misbehave.

However, bachelor’s parties don’t have to be a committed girl’s worst relationship nightmare. We asked the experts on how to cheatproof this kind of event.

• The Friend Factor

First, you should determine how an adult rated hookup gets started. The single guys are often the troublemakers who pressures their non-single buddies to loosen up on their morals a little or a lot. Regardless if they’re single or in a relationship, guys are always encouraged by their friends who want to find an excuse to party.

In addition, the younger guys in their 20s are more likely to go along than their older pals, when, say, a stripper is offering private performances in the bedroom. But the bottom line is nobody can be influenced unless they want to be.

• Define Your Terms

Your best bet is to be preventive: Since men and women have different definitions of what constitutes cheating, it’s important to make yours crystal clear.

While the thought of a half-naked woman grinding her lady bits onto your guy’s crotch might completely freak you out, he may think it’s perfectly harmless to get a lap dance. So present your concerns by approaching him in a nonthreatening, but straightforward way, like saying, “I would feel really uncomfortable if…”

The perfect time to set things clear is right after a good romp, when the love hormone oxytocin is raging through both your bodies. Point out that you’re willing to try new things in the bedroom because you have complete trust in him and know you’re the only girl he’s doing stuff like that in bed with. You can then figure out ways he can still have fun, on terms that you both agree with.

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The Morning-After Hookup Escape Plan

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There is absolutely nothing quite like a nice hookup then waking up in an unfamiliar bed lying next to an unfamiliar guy who is resting his unfamiliar parts all over your very familiar girly bits. It will suddenly dawn on you that you’ve awaken in somebody else’s house. So how exactly do you exit from of an awkward morning-after hookup situation without sneaking out of a half-awake guy’s window or admitting that you can’t remember what his name is?

The Family Outing M.O.

Memorize this by heart: “Oh no, I can’t believe it’s so late! I completely forgot that I’m supposed to go shopping/have brunch/do my taxes with my dad/older ex-Marine brother/increasingly senile gramps. By using the family card, he can’t suggest you blow it off without looking like a jerk, or casually invite himself along without looking like he’s trying to marry you.

The “Oh Shit, I Forgot to Take My Meds” M.O.

Jump out of bed and start to frantically search your purse while mumbling to yourself, “Wednesday, Thursday… What’s today again? How could I forget to take the pill three days in a row?” You can alternately substitute your birth control pill of choice for insulin injections, any kind of anxiety treatment drugs, etc.

The Crazy Girl M.O.

Stare at his forehead until he wakes up. And once he sees you staring at him, start bursting hysterically into tears. Go into fetal position, or sit while rocking back and forth, and talk about how you broke your commitment with your boyfriend or Jesus in between sobs.

The Clingy Hopeful M.O.

Make yourself comfortable and make it look like you’ve settled in quite nicely. Slip into one of his tees when he gets up to shower and follow him to the bathroom, all the while talking about not having any real plans for the day. Ask if he has an extra toothbrush that you could use, and then ask if it’s alright to leave it there for “the next time.” There is a good chance he will suddenly remember that he needs to go shopping/have brunch/do his taxes with his dad/older ex-Marine brother/increasingly senile gramps.

The Last Desperate Escape Through the Window M.O.

Request for a glass of water then skedaddle out of the window when he walks out of the bedroom. If you’re still in your shoes from last night, consider leaving them as a parting gift. This is a good way to avoid breaking your ankle as you drop from the fire escape.

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The Most Terrible Text Messages You Could Send to Someone You Want to Hook Up With

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Will you look at that, the playa just scored a number. But what do you do now? Should you give her a call, or send her a text? How long do you have to wait before touching base? And what the hell are you supposed to say?!

Regardless of what your stand is on calling versus texting and time delay, there is one thing we can all agree on: What you say when you initiate contact is crucial. It’s basically a whole new way of making the first impression so you can successfully hook up. So let us look at a few text messages that should not be sent at all costs.

”Hey” or anything that is synonymous with “hey”

It is very impressive that you know how to write a three-letter word and press send, but this is, without question, the single most annoying word a person can text. I’m pretty sure a lot of guys are guilty of this let’s all stop pretending and this is the reason why it’s lame: It deliberately passes the burden of having something interesting to say to the other person you want to hook up with. It’s putting the lifeblood of a potential connection to that person’s lap, saying, “Here, you do it,” which is kind of pathetic really.

”Hi this is from Club Nuvo. So now you have my number.”

This may appear better than number 1, but it’s actually not. At best you come across as dull, so doubtful of your memorability that you have to remind her who you are and how you met. And at worst you sound cocky, having to point out your benevolence by letting her have your number. Women surely hate this, because it’s like having them say, “Dude, you asked for my number. Are you going to do something about it, or are you just going to take pleasure in the fact that we swapped numbers, which made your Friday night a little less depressing?”

”How are you?”

Who cares? The person you’re texting doesn’t give a shit because you only just met. Moreover, you’re once again giving the impression of dullness. You’ll probably get one obligatory response and nothing more, because you haven’t shown her anything that’s even remotely interesting.

”Guess who this is.”

It’s hard to believe that people actually do this, but you have to know that there is a fine line between being mysterious and creepy. Guessing games can be cute, fun, and flirty, but if it’s your first text to someone you just met, you not only run the risk of sounding creepy, but you may get an answer you don’t really want to receive.

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6 Indications He’s a Serial Hookup Dater

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A serial dater acts like going for a hookup is his job. And apparently, online dating sites are full of this kind of people. I wouldn’t know though, because I was too busy running after these guys in real life. I would like to refer to this point in my life as “The Dark Period In My Twenties.”

The important thing to keep in mind is serial daters are never ready to settle down. They just like to hookup because they’re in it for the chase, and once they have you ensnared in their web or bed BAM, they’re gone like the proverbial ninja.

Here are six indications you should lookout for:

1. He’s a constant bachelor

He has this Clooney thing going on, but most likely not as good looking. The longest he’s been in a relationship is just for a couple of years, and then calls it off by using some lame excuse that won’t even hold up in the post office.

2. He charms the panties off of you… literally.

Once you two hookup and sleep together, he’s not as into you as he once was. Even having coffee with him the morning after sex takes on a dark atmosphere.

3. His eyes gloss over once you start talking about yourself or your interests.

He’d rather keep the talks focused more on what’s important: himself. If he starts talking about himself in the third person, run away as fast as you can.

4. He makes promises he can’t keep.

It’s not that he has to go away to work on a big project, he’d just rather go out with this hot girl he met at a club last night.

5. Work is the most important thing to him.

It defines who he is. You’ll be hearing him saying, “I’m going to be huge,” and “I got to go make loads of money.”

6. After going out on a few dates, he’s going to start talking about how fucked up he is.

And how he feels he may be confused or depressed. You’ll think, “Poor guy, I can help.” I would like to think of this move as preparation for his grand exit. It’s really just another way of saying, “It’s not you, it’s me.” And yes, it’s definitely not me, you douchebag.

I’m not sure if this article has made me feel more angry or stupid. Either way, you have to believe me when I tell you that you have to avoid these men like the plague. Unless, of course, you’re looking for material for whatever it is you need it for. Then, by all means, do what you have to do.

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An Adult Sex Guide In Losing Your Virginity Late

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Someone told me recently that 90 percent of people regret the first person they have sex with, but they figure now that they are no longer virgins, there’s no sense in stopping. But if you’re somebody who is severely bothered by regret, it would totally make sense if you made through high school a virgin. And college. And grad school. And, well, you get the picture. The next thing you know, you’re a in your late twenties who’s done everything except have real life adult sex.

Don’t downplay your V-card

You probably haven’t met the right person yet, or you always got nervous and copped out, or maybe it was a combination of these things and him not having a condom, or right when you were about to have adult sex, somebody set the house on fire.

However, it really doesn’t matter, and don’t attempt to pass it off as circumstance. The fact is, you always had a choice, and you chose to wait. It’s nothing to be ashamed of, nor is it something other people should use as a standard for judgment. It’s just who you are, so be proud!

Tell people

You’re sitting at a table in a bar with your girl friends when somebody regales everyone with a crazy sex position she tried the night before, and they you go, “Haha! Yeah, that. I do that ALL the time,” the whole time playing that scene of “The 40-Year Old Virgin” in your mind where Steve Carell go called out for remarking that a woman’s breast feels like a bag of sand. Is this really what you want?

You don’t have to tell everyone, but it would be good to tell your closest friends.

But at some point, you should stop listening to their advice

Sometimes your guy friend who sleeps around would be like, “You’re missing out a lot! This is the hottest time we will ever gonna be,” and then your girl friends go,”Urm, it’s not really that much of a big deal, so just do it with a random guy you meet at a bar. The conflicting points will eventually become overwhelming, at which point you have to be like, “Shut the fuck up, everyone.”

Wait a little bit before telling the person you’re dating, but tell him nonetheless.

So if you’re considering not telling him and just lie there, that is one big mistake. He won’t know if he has to hold back physically the first time, and if he eventually figures it out, he might feel deceived. A lie of omission is not exactly a good way to start a relationship.

If everything seems to be going well, you could casually mention on the third or fourth date that you’ve never done it before. If he stays, he’s a keeper. But if he bails, he’s a dick. Forget him.

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Adult Dating Tips: Reasons Why Your BFF Dislikes Your BF

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One reader’s predicament in her adult dating relationship that I recently came across with got me thinking about how much more of a hater BFF than the girlfriend.

Anyway, I’ve been having quite a tough time dealing with my friend’s boyfriend lately. We got off on a good start, but it has become increasingly apparent to me that this guy is a complete pussy. So in behalf of the pernickety BFF, here are a few reasons you might want to check out why your female friends may hate your boyfriend.

He makes you sad

Herp derp. If he’s treating you bad, we’re definitely not going to act like it’s okay.

He thinks his shit doesn’t stink

When he acts “over” everything, it’s not the way to endear yourself to people especially his girlfriend’s friends.

He flirts with other girls

Seriously?

He says bad things about me to her even if they will surely get back to me

Aha! What?! After that badly-executed slip by my best friend at the salon, now I’m suddenly “the kind of girl who needs constant validation,” and “if it was him, he wouldn’t put up with that kind of behavior.” Wow, thanks man.

At least one or more of his pals suck

I mean seriously suck. Like womanizing, pretentious, obnoxious, and manipulative suck.

Social moodiness

He has the ability to ruin nights because of his ineptitude to act a civilized human being around large groups of people when he’s out adult dating with my best friend. It happens frequently that I can’t even remember the last time my friend turned to us to apologize, saying, “Sorry about him, he’s just in a bad mood lately.” At which point the evening culminates with him dragging my best friend home early.

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Adult Dating Tips: Breaking Up with Him

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Don’t know how to break up with your man amicably? Here are five adult dating tips that assure you’ll get your stuff back.

1. Right Place, Right Time

Choose the best way to communicate wisely. Stay away from using Facebook, text and email messaging, and phone calls at all cost. Not only are these methods impersonal, but they can also be considered cheeky. If you and your man live in different places and won’t be seeing each other for quite some time, then it’s probably fine to communicate via phone, but be sure to have enough talk time sans any kind of interruption.

Arrange for a place that isn’t too public when you break the unfortunate news. It’s uncomfortable enough to have strangers around during this rather sensitive event. Find some place where you can have privacy.

Do not break up on a holiday or during a special event, like your anniversary. This can make it more emotional for him when it happens on a sentimental day. Refrain from breaking up with him during a fight or when you’re angry and not in full control of your emotions, which is a common mistake couples make. Make the decision when you’re calm and collected.

2. Explain Thoroughly and Listen Carefully

Makes sure you have enough time to explain all the reasons why it’s not working with him. It may come as a shock, so sit down and break it to him gently. Say everything that’s on your mind without being insensitive and inconsiderate. It already hurts to know that you’ll be upsetting him, but if you make him feel that you care, he can be more understanding with all things considered.

3. Restrict the Gossip

It’s fine to ask for advice from your best friend, but out of respect to your soon to be ex, make sure you do not tell too many people, especially if you have a lot of mutual friends. He’ll be mortified if everyone else knows before he does.

4. Give Him Space

You might be inclined to try and make him feel better if he gets upset, but doing so can make it seem like you’re still together. It’s great to show you care, however, it’s also important to distance yourself because he’ll have a tougher time to get over you if you’re always around. Space and time are essential tools needed to help you both move on easier.

5. Move On

Don’t think of the end of your adult dating relationship as a failure, but think of it as an important learning experience. Knowing the things that worked and those that didn’t work can help you evolve in your next adult dating relationship. Don’t focus on the bad things that happened. Just learn from your mistakes and make them the reasons to grow in maturity.

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Adult Dating Tips for a Successful First Date

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Are you nervous about an impending first date? Fret not, for we have a step-by-step adult dating guide to give you lowdown on what to expect so you can shine!

Getting Ready

When you open the door for him, you want him to think, “Wow,” but without looking like you’re trying too hard. Maintain the balance by matching your sexy jeans with a nice off-shoulder tee or a fantastic strappy tank something that shows a bit of skin but not too skanky. Give yourself an extra 30 minutes to get ready, so you don’t have to hurry or make him wait.

At the Door

Even if you talk frequently, the first official moments of a real date can get nerve-wracking because of so much build up. Just be cool and calm his jitters by giving him a nice greeting of a warm hello and quick hug. You can even crack a joke just to break the tension and diffuse any pressure.

On the Way

You may be inclined to ask a lot of questions to get him to open up, but that can make him feel like he’s in a job interview. What you can do to keep the conversation moving instead is make funny observations like saying, “Do you ever make eye contact with other drivers at a red light? I hate it when that happens!” Don’t worry about awkward pauses you can always default to asking what’s on his music player. Since he selected the songs, he’s sure to have things to say about it.

At Dinner

If you’re not sure about him picking up the tab or how much food you can order, ask what he’s getting and order a dish around the same price range. When the check comes, offer to split or share. If he insists on paying, don’t push it. Just thank him and offer to buy him a drink next.

Saying Goodnight

If you want to go adult dating with him again, bring up something you talked about earlier (“So when do I get the chance to kick your butt in Dance Central?”) Are you ready for a kiss? Don’t rush to get in the house when he drops you off. Move closer to him without losing eye contact. If he takes your hint, he’ll lean in for the kiss!

The Next Day

Just be cool and let him make first contact. Texting him first can make you look overly excited. If he’s into you, chances are you’ll be hearing from him by the end of the day. While waiting, enjoy that awesome rush you get after a fantastic date it’s exciting to not know what’s going to happen next!

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Hookup With Guys

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As women, we know that there are single guys just about everywhere you look. That usually it is not a problem to see and hookup with guys. However, if you are looking for a GREAT guy, then you have to look a lot deeper, don’t you? Well, it does not have to be as hard as it might seem. At least, not in the way that most women make it out to be. The truth is, there ARE lots of great guys out there that are single and looking to meet a woman just like you. As long as you are open to finding the right guy, it can and will happen. And as long as you are willing to find out the right way to keep him, then you won’t have to worry about him getting away from you.

Here are 4 tips for women looking to meet a great guy and hookup:

1. Don’t just look for your dream guy in a bar or a club.

You and I know the most of the men that you find in a bar or a club are out for the hookup and not for the relationship. So, if you want to have a chance at finding a guy who IS, then you need to go and look in other places. Keep your eyes open, because you just might find him in places that you would never think of.

2. Pay attention to whether or not you are sending the right signals.

If your body language is closed off, if it seems like you do not want to be bothered, then the chances that you will end up attracting the right guy are not very good at all. Women tend to forget that most guys are shy about approaching them, and if your body language sends the signal that you are not looking, he more than likely will not make his move.

3. Laugh at his jokes, make him feel like he is a fun guy.

If you want to make an impression on a man that lasts, then laughing at his little jokes can be a good way to make him feel like you are the one. Trust me, guys are pretty nervous when they are around women, and you can make him feel comfortable and like he is a fun guy if he catches you laughing at his jokes.

4. Flirt with your eyes.

Guys like this stuff a lot, they eat it up like candy. Give him those seductive, bedroom eyes and let him know that you are a woman that he cannot resist. If you want to have him keep coming back to you, then this is what you need to be doing.

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Hookup With Girls Easily

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Are you having trouble hooking up with girls? Well this is your lucky day, because today, we are going to teach you how to hookup with girls easily. Lots of men think that what we are saying here is bullshit. You can never hookup easily with women and that understanding them is just too hard to do. But our answer is that it can. And it is very simple. Once you understand the art of approaching women you will become a master at this.

The whole point of hooking up with girls is just to have sex or a one night stand. Or If you like them, get their number to follow up. With the right approach you can hookup with girls easily. Here are the steps to follow.

Step 1. When approaching women you need to be confident and always act like you are running into a friend. Women are more are open to talking to a complete stranger if she is approached properly and slightly impressed with what she sees. If you approached her looking right and having the right attitude then this is your best chance to get a positive reaction.

Step 2. The next up is to what you are going to say. Know what you are going to say before you say it and be prepared for what they have to say. You can start up with a simple pick up line or go straight into introducing yourself. You have to engage as soon as you start to talk to her. You need good eye contact and make sure you show no signs of being nervous, even if you are.

Step 3. The next is to make sure that she is enjoying herself and asking her really general questions. It all depends on what she is doing when you meet her. Sometimes you do not have a lot of time and might have to play the guy with the hookups if you have them. They usually always want something free or easy so if you do not have much time you can instantly play that card and then go straight for the number. If you have some time ask questions and get to know her a little better. Always start with general questions then gradually move to personal questions.

Step 4. The next step is making sure she is laughing and this maybe hard if she has no sense of humor. This best impressions is always the people who make them laugh and have a good time. This can be done by playing games with them or showing them magic tricks. It really does not matter what you do as long as you do not embarrass them or yourself. Keep it simple but make sure its humorous.

Step 5. The next thing to do is either ask them what they are doing later, now or get their number. Now it is time to close it so ask for there numbers but make sure it comes out naturally. You have to ask it but make sure you say it quick and clear. If you take too long she might have more questions and if you say it to low then she might ask you to repeat it. This shows little self esteem which is important. Make sure the message comes out and no matter if she gives it or not, you gained experience and you done it properly.

Remember that there are many more women so if in your first try, you didn’t succeed, don’t be discouraged. Rejection is not bad. By practicing these steps until you master it, you will have hookup with girls easily than you thought.

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Hookup Rules

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So, you are at a party, or on a beach or somewhere that you are having fun. You’re drinking cocktails, dancing and before you know it, you are talking and flirting with a hottie and your temperature rises and you want to hookup with him/her. Well, while your temperature is rising and you are trying to find a way to be alone with them. Still, there are some things to consider before the  hookup occurs. You can decide to hookup, hang out or hang up at any moment you choose!

Here are seven factors that can you can keep in mind while you hookup

The beer factor: The beer can cloud your judgment if you have too much of it. Sometimes drunk people see everyone as hot because they are already drunk. So if you stay within your limits you can make a better choice. If you’ve had a few too many, you may want to ask your friend, if what you see is really what you get.

The health factor: Think about staying young and healthy! You can more easily prevent than treat sexually transmitted diseases by using safer sex practices such as condoms and other safer sex apparel such as dental dams or gloves as part of all sex play. You also have a right to ask someone’s health status. You can go to the nearest pharmacy or convenience store to get supplies.

The relationship factor: Are you in a relationship? (not with this hottie). If you are, do you care about this person, and what is your agreement about being exclusive? “She’ll never find out” or “he’ll never know the difference” is a lie that you can tell yourself at the time, but can you live with that? How will you feel about cheating on your partner?

The morning after factor: How will you feel about this decision in the morning? If you are great with that, then go ahead and have fun. If you decide just to hook up for sex sake, then have at it, as long as the decision is mutual and you consider safer sex practices. You probably don’t want to create a baby from a fling. If you really like the person, though, and want to know them better, you may consider doing him/her breakfast.

The backup factor: Do your friends know where you are? Do you know where you are? If the answer is no, then make sure to let someone or more than one person know where you are going. The address, etc. Have an agreement with one of your friends about where you are. You can ask for ID also so you can let them know the name and address of the person you are going somewhere with.

The small world factor: It is indeed a small world. Remember, you may be seeing the person on campus again, or off campus if you met them through friends. I know it’s sometimes difficult to think about the future when you are having such a great time in the present! However, keep in mind that you will run into people in some other time.

To hookup and have great sex is one of the greatest moment. But bear in mind that after sex you have a lot of aftermath to face. So avoid disastrous aftermath and take this tips in mind before you even say “Let’s hookup”.

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Sex Dating and How To Be Sexy

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So you have a date tonight? And you are 100% sure that in this date you will get laid tonight. Well then we should prepare for that and make sure that everything will be ok and sexy throughout your date so that so that it would go through a sex date and not just another turn off date. So how can one be so irresistibly sexy?

It has little to do with looks, or how much you weigh, or how big your muscles are. In fact, since many adult sex dates now start online, the playing field has been leveled. You can easily become irresistible to men and women across the South African landscape before you ever meet face to face. Want to know the secret?

The first step is to lower your expectations. Now by this, I don’t mean lower your standards. I simply mean that to be an irresistible sexy date then you don’t want to go into the whole thing as if you are interviewing people to be your next business or marriage partner. In this day, that can be way too complicated and stressful. What ends up happening is that you start to look for potential flaws in the person you’re chatting with online or meeting face to face. Once you do this, it is reflected through the words you use and the “tone” of your keystrokes. The person on the other end of your internet connection will pick up on it and will mark you off the list as a potential sexy date.

The second thing that you need to practice is how to become really good at chatting up sex. Think about it. How can you have sex dating if you take sex out of the conversation? You can’t.

With adult dating online you have the perfect place to practice your sexiness. You are in the company of adults that are looking for the same type of dating experience that you are. They typically aren’t ready for a serious steady or a spouse. In this forum they want to have some fun in their dating life, and plenty of sex. You will have people flocking to your online dating profile when you perfect your ability to chat sex. If you can talk the talk, then you are more likely to deliver the goods on a sexy date.

Finally, remember what I said earlier about being irresistible has nothing to do with looks? You may think that I’m crazy, but some of the sexiest people I know are simply average in the looks department but they have the sexual confidence of an Adonis. Once you start rolling around in the sheets those dimpled thighs and beer gut can be quickly forgotten when you are focused on mutual sexual pleasure and not a negative body image.

Every person has a single part of them that is irresistible. It could be their personality, their humor, their eyes, the way they touch you, the way to suck you, or the way they enjoy the absolute pleasure of having sex dating. Find that part in yourself, and find that part in your adult dating partner and you will never miss another opportunity for sex dating.

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Adult Dating Website And You’ll Love Them

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Hook up In The Workplace

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I have this guy that I’m really into at my workplace, he’s so hot and attractive and I just can’t help smiling whenever he’s there. Have you ever felt undeniably attracted to a coworker like my experience? Or have you already have sex or hookup with a coworker? Well, although hook up in the workplace seems to be a really hot item – think sex in the Xerox room during breaks, sex in the elevator or sex with the boss that brings out promotion – in reality, hooking up in workplace is not that good of an idea.

Most companies have strict policies about work relationships, and support employees maintaining professional relationships that do not include sexual relationships because of legal issues and because of potential loss of productivity or employees because of rumors and drama! But if you cant stop yourself (like me) to act on your desire for your coworker, well, just keep these tips on mind if you want to enjoy your hookup in the workplace and stay out of trouble at work.

Danger #1: “Happy Hour Hookups”. Coworkers sometimes go out for drinks together after work. While it is ok to socialize, some people have one-too many drinks and end up going home with someone from work, and sometimes they don’t know who they hookup with. The risk of this includes losing your job or your credibility with coworkers. So if you want to drink, drink moderately and make sure that it you will be hooking up afterwards, you who you will hookup with.

Danger #2: “Sleeping Your Way to the Bottom” If you become sexually involved with bosses or people who report to you, you can have a sexual harassment suit filed against you, lose your job, or be forced to resign. So if you really got the hots for your boss, make sure he/she is single and don’t use your hookup status to be promoted. On the other hand, if you are attracted to people you handle, then don’t use this position to blackmail them and hookup with you or for them to be promoted.

Danger #3: “The Morning After Blues”. Remember, the person you hook up with is the person you have to see around the office. This can be uncomfortable for a good long time, if not permanently while you are both working there. So make sure that after you hookup, clear thing with your coworker. Whether it is only just a hookup or can lead to a serious relationship. Clearing things up, lessen the awkwardness.

Now that you know the dangers, you can now decide if it’s worth the risk to respond to the collegial booty call. One of my coaching clients was forced to walk away from a long contract because they had a sexual relationship with someone at the company who later turned on them and sabotaged their reputation and ability to do business with that company.

So what is an alternative? If you are single looking for a hook up, you can date or pick a person up who is not your coworker. That way, you can have a totally no strings attached encounter, anyway that is what hookups is all about.

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Is It Just A Hook Up?

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Is it just a hook up or is it something serious? Believe it or not, many women are stuck with this question. And even though being stuck in a one night stand with a guy that they really like is a nightmare for any woman. Still, many women stay in this kind of relationships because they really like the guy. So how do you know whether it’s just a  hook up  or not? Here are a few things that you can observe in the behaviors of the guy that you like, to see what he really wants from you.

The way he treats you - If he is interested in more than just sex with you, then he will make sure that both of you have an enjoyable time and he will not even try to get physical with you right away. But he is all about sex, then he just rips off all your clothes every time you see each other then sleeps after sex and run away when he wakes up.

R-E-S-P-E-C-T – A guy who is truly interested in you will not have a problem looking you in the eye instead of constantly looking at the rest of your body. He will show respect for you emotionally by truly listening to you and caring what you have to say, as well as respecting you sexually.

Going Public – One of the easiest ways to determine what a guy really wants, is to pay attention to where he wants to spend his time with you. If he always wants to be alone in a private location, chances are that he is not looking for something serious because he is hiding you. If he has no problem going out for a lunch on his break, etc. then he is probably interested in something more than sex.

More Talks – If a man is interested in getting into a relationship instead of just hooking up, he will talk to you at random intervals during the day to see how you are doing. Or just simply say Hi. If he wants a hook up only, then he talks to you less and is more of the action in bed.

Planning the Future – The willingness to talk about the future is very rare in the male gender, unless a man actually has the intention of staying with you for a while. If he can openly talk to you about incorporating you into his future, then there is a good chance that he is really interested.

Your Input is Important – When he has serious problems in his life, he will ask you for your advice because your opinion means a lot to him. If he makes all decisions without you, it is a bad sign for your future together or that there may not be one.

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Vintage Adult Dating Tips

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Ladies around the world doing adult dating, often hear their parents or just some elders in the neighbors that adult dating nowadays is to wild and liberated. And we often answer them with words such as “Oh come on, didn’t you experience being a single and dating and having fun”. And that makes me wonder. What is adult dating like way back in their times? Are they all conservative, are there any kissing and making out involved?

We’ve found out some old relationship magazines at our grandmother’s cabinet and saw this great article about how girls should behave to have a successful date. Let’s go back in the 1930′s and explore it all. Read on and enjoy!

1. Do your dressing in your room to keep your allure. Be ready to go when date arrives, don’t keep him waiting. Greet him with a smile.
2. Make sure that your underwear are not visible in your dress. Make sure that your stockings are not crumpled too.
3. Makeup in privacy, not where he sees you. Men hate girls who borrow their handkerchief and smudge them with lipstick so don’t ever do this. Don’t use the car mirror too to fix your make-up. Man needs it in driving.
4. Don’t sit in awkward positions and never look bored even if you are. Be alert on to what he is saying.
5. Don’t talk while dancing, for when a man dances he wants to dance only.
6. Any display of affection in public humiliates and embarrasses a man. So don’t be so comfortable and don’t caress him in public.
7. Don’t be familiar with other man around you talking about the fun you had last time with them. A man deserves your entire attention.
8. Don’t be sentimental or try to get him to say something he doesn’t want to by working on his emotions. Men don’t like tears, especially in public places.
9. Don’t drink too much as a man expects you to keep your dignity all evening. Drinking make some girls seem clever, but most get silly. The last straw is to pass out from too much liquor.

Okay, some of the tips there are still applicable for today. But some are just too conservative for today’s dating scene. But well, we’ve learned a thing or two in this vintage adult dating tips right? Like don’t drink too much. Because admit it or not, when we date and drink, we will definitely end up in Bed with a man. But that is for booty calls only and not for serious adult dating tips. If you like serious relationship, being reputable women is the way to go. So don’t be a sour grape and thank your grandmother for reminding you to take it easy in your adult dating.

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Why Guys Hookup with Girls Who Are Older

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Why would guys want to hookup with girls who are older? If you must know, older girls are not only more mature and financially secure, but are also better lovers that don’t mess around with men’s heads. These are only a few of the wonderful benefits you’ll get when you hookup with girls who are older.

It is quite common and almost cliche to see an older guy hookup with girls who are much younger. It has become generally accepted that guys date younger women. Conversely, we have yet to accept this idea if a woman is dating much younger man.

Right now, it’s time to accept both standards. Guys should start realizing the benefits they can get from dating older women. And by older women, we’re talking around a maximum of 10 to 12 years. To give you a clearer picture, let’s take a look at the pros and cons of dating older women.

The Pros

Experience – Older women may not be as physically ravishing as their younger counterparts, but it’s quite amazing what an extra ten years of experience can show you. They don’t beat around the bush, they know exactly what they want, and can manipulate you both physically and mentally just to get it.

Independence – They are more established in their careers and rely less on men to support them. An older woman’s independence is refreshing for any man who is used to spending much effort in taking care of his girl. It can be a huge stress reliever for men. It takes the pressure off their shoulders to support the relationship.

Maturity – They know how to appreciate the finer things in life. They don’t play games and they don’t give much importance to materialistic ideals that go through all the media channels. You can hold deep and sensible conversations with older women, and not have to worry about silly topics of vanity.

The Cons

Commitment and Their Biological Clocks – There is definitely nothing wrong with a May-September romance, because a woman has every right to have a relationship with a younger man just as guys have with younger women. But to find her, you must consider her plans of wanting to start a family. Keep in mind that her biological clock is running fast. However, she might just be into younger energetic men to have fun sans babies, so make sure what her intentions are before jumping into a relationship with her.

Past Baggage – Along with a great past sexual experience comes excess baggage. You might want to do a personality check to make sure she has no dark history.

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A Choice Between Dating for Love and Sex Dating

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Relationships are based on a lot of things: love, honesty, respect, communication, and sex. Or are they? Like many are led to believe, almost all relationships don’t last without the element of sex. Well, they might be right.

It’s fundamentally sound to have the presence of love in a relationship, for it is the foundation of the couple’s togetherness. Regardless of the zero amount of sex dating a couple engages in, love is a feeling that can’t be ignored or brushed off.

What it all boils down to is which category the relationship falls into: she loves me, she loves me not.

• Purely Love
A union based totally on love stems out of respect between two people who don’t have the need to be physically intimate to complete the equation. It may be hard to understand why a man wouldn’t want to go sex dating with the love of his life to consummate their undying love, but honestly, you don’t have to.

It all comes down to what the couple thinks is right for them. They might not be able to have sex because of some physical disability. On the other hand, there are some couples who have sex just for the purpose of procreating. Hey, if that’s what they want to do with their lives, much respect to them.

• Purely Sex
A relationship based only on sex, however, doesn’t involve much understanding and caring for a person and their emotions. The sole purpose of this relationship is to use each other’s physical attraction to satiate their primal sexual needs.

Forget about caring if one is down with the flu or remembering your mom’s birthday for that matter. This kind of relationship is meant to only give you a short time of happiness and instant gratification. You can think of it as loving somebody for just a moment.

Although love can spring from a long-lasting relationship of this kind, especially on the woman’s part, but they rarely happen. Men are more inclined to keep it exactly the way it is. This may also explain why some guys have affairs or keep mistresses.

• Both Sex and Love
Then there are some that comes with the complete package, which probably explains where the term “honeymoon” came from. Like any form of relationship between couples, it has to grow and mature. It’s not healthy for people to be together and feel that their relationship has not evolved into something better after a lengthy time together. There’s no point spending your lives together if nothing’s changed.

As love is a frail emotion that requires nurturing and maintenance, sex is more of like a band-aid solution to minor cuts and scratches. You have an argument, engage in a fight, make up, and have sex. It seems that they perfectly complement each other.

Since relationships have both a mental and physical aspect, being involved in one that has both seems perfectly logical.

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Knowing If Your Adult Dating Partner Likes You

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Regardless of how old you are or what stage of life you’re in, the moment you feel that you like a woman, you start badgering your friends with the question: Does she like me?

Here’s the thing: The minute you walk around thinking if she likes you, you are essentially handing over your power to her without even realizing it. The next time you see her when you ask her to go adult dating, you can’t be yourself because you’re so caught up in wondering if she feels the same way, which you really want to happen, so you hold back in showing who you really are, which really defeats the whole purpose of adult dating.

So to get that happy ending to finally meet that fantastic partner you could spend the rest of your life with, or at least happily ever after for a couple of years you will first need to find somebody who likes you and wants to date you for who you are and not for who they think you are. You should quit worrying if she likes you, and instead think: Do you like her? Is she someone you can hang out with? Is she someone you can go on a vacation with? Is she someone you like to see when you wake up in the morning? Is she sexually compatible with you? Do you like the way she moves, talks, and takes care of herself? And most importantly, can you be 100% yourself whenever she’s around? Are you being yourself, or are you just pretending to be another version of yourself so you could get her to like you?

The moment I decided to stop worrying if a girl liked me and started being who I really am in any scenario, I had countless women liking me. The funny thing about this is I really didn’t like many of them, and ironically, I found that they were actually spending time trying to get me to like them instead of just being themselves.

I’ve already experienced what you’re going through, and I’ve seen both sides of the coin. And take note, if you decide to flip the switch and start following the things I’ve advised above, you’ll never have to call a friend and ask if a girl likes you back. You will never have to worry if she feels the same way. You will have complete control and power, and you will start attracting fine women.

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