Sex Dating and How To Be Sexy

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So you have a date tonight? And you are 100% sure that in this date you will get laid tonight. Well then we should prepare for that and make sure that everything will be ok and sexy throughout your date so that so that it would go through a sex date and not just another turn off date. So how can one be so irresistibly sexy?

It has little to do with looks, or how much you weigh, or how big your muscles are. In fact, since many adult sex dates now start online, the playing field has been leveled. You can easily become irresistible to men and women across the South African landscape before you ever meet face to face. Want to know the secret?

The first step is to lower your expectations. Now by this, I don’t mean lower your standards. I simply mean that to be an irresistible sexy date then you don’t want to go into the whole thing as if you are interviewing people to be your next business or marriage partner. In this day, that can be way too complicated and stressful. What ends up happening is that you start to look for potential flaws in the person you’re chatting with online or meeting face to face. Once you do this, it is reflected through the words you use and the “tone” of your keystrokes. The person on the other end of your internet connection will pick up on it and will mark you off the list as a potential sexy date.

The second thing that you need to practice is how to become really good at chatting up sex. Think about it. How can you have sex dating if you take sex out of the conversation? You can’t.

With adult dating online you have the perfect place to practice your sexiness. You are in the company of adults that are looking for the same type of dating experience that you are. They typically aren’t ready for a serious steady or a spouse. In this forum they want to have some fun in their dating life, and plenty of sex. You will have people flocking to your online dating profile when you perfect your ability to chat sex. If you can talk the talk, then you are more likely to deliver the goods on a sexy date.

Finally, remember what I said earlier about being irresistible has nothing to do with looks? You may think that I’m crazy, but some of the sexiest people I know are simply average in the looks department but they have the sexual confidence of an Adonis. Once you start rolling around in the sheets those dimpled thighs and beer gut can be quickly forgotten when you are focused on mutual sexual pleasure and not a negative body image.

Every person has a single part of them that is irresistible. It could be their personality, their humor, their eyes, the way they touch you, the way to suck you, or the way they enjoy the absolute pleasure of having sex dating. Find that part in yourself, and find that part in your adult dating partner and you will never miss another opportunity for sex dating.

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Vintage Adult Dating Tips

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Ladies around the world doing adult dating, often hear their parents or just some elders in the neighbors that adult dating nowadays is to wild and liberated. And we often answer them with words such as “Oh come on, didn’t you experience being a single and dating and having fun”. And that makes me wonder. What is adult dating like way back in their times? Are they all conservative, are there any kissing and making out involved?

We’ve found out some old relationship magazines at our grandmother’s cabinet and saw this great article about how girls should behave to have a successful date. Let’s go back in the 1930′s and explore it all. Read on and enjoy!

1. Do your dressing in your room to keep your allure. Be ready to go when date arrives, don’t keep him waiting. Greet him with a smile.
2. Make sure that your underwear are not visible in your dress. Make sure that your stockings are not crumpled too.
3. Makeup in privacy, not where he sees you. Men hate girls who borrow their handkerchief and smudge them with lipstick so don’t ever do this. Don’t use the car mirror too to fix your make-up. Man needs it in driving.
4. Don’t sit in awkward positions and never look bored even if you are. Be alert on to what he is saying.
5. Don’t talk while dancing, for when a man dances he wants to dance only.
6. Any display of affection in public humiliates and embarrasses a man. So don’t be so comfortable and don’t caress him in public.
7. Don’t be familiar with other man around you talking about the fun you had last time with them. A man deserves your entire attention.
8. Don’t be sentimental or try to get him to say something he doesn’t want to by working on his emotions. Men don’t like tears, especially in public places.
9. Don’t drink too much as a man expects you to keep your dignity all evening. Drinking make some girls seem clever, but most get silly. The last straw is to pass out from too much liquor.

Okay, some of the tips there are still applicable for today. But some are just too conservative for today’s dating scene. But well, we’ve learned a thing or two in this vintage adult dating tips right? Like don’t drink too much. Because admit it or not, when we date and drink, we will definitely end up in Bed with a man. But that is for booty calls only and not for serious adult dating tips. If you like serious relationship, being reputable women is the way to go. So don’t be a sour grape and thank your grandmother for reminding you to take it easy in your adult dating.

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Adult Dating Tips: Ask Open-Ended Questions

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All adult dating guides emphasize the importance of asking open-ended questions to maintain an interesting conversation. They are crucial in dictating the date’s flow, and at the same time make her feel you are interested in her. Moreover, they allow her to open herself up and talk about her favorite subject herself.

The great thing about asking open-ended questions is they illicit full responses rather than short yes or no answers. Think of how a conversation will flow if you ask her “Why did you take biology in college?” instead of “You took biology in college, right?” The first one leads to an actual conversation that leads to what she enjoys doing, while the second only draws a single word response.

To engage in an interesting and successful adult dating conversation, remember a couple of our essential and helpful tips below. However, don’t use them as a script. You don’t have to worry, because once the conversation starts going, it will naturally flow on its own.

Friends and Family

Question #1: “So what do your folks do for a living?”
Question #2: “What do you and your friends do for fun?”

Friends and family are easy to talk about at length for most people. Interesting questions about these topics make great icebreakers, because they’re quite natural to ask not too personal, nor invasive and they easily lead to a deeper conversation.

Listen intently to her answers so you can make interesting follow up questions. For instance, if she comes from a big family, ask her how often they get all together. This will lead to stories of Thanksgiving get-togethers and Christmas parties. If you have friends in common, this is an easy topic to start a conversation. Just make sure you don’t stay long on the subject of other people, because it will just prevent you from getting to know her better.

Career

Question #1: “How does one get into that kind of work?”
Question #2: “What do you see yourself doing in five years?”

Other great icebreakers are about work. Everyone spends most of their waking hours at the workplace, so it’s a subject that can easily be talked about. After the customary “What do you do?” inquiry, the possibility of more open-ended questions is infinite.

You can ask her about a detailed explanation of her work, her career plans, the things she likes/dislikes about her job, unsavory coworkers, and the things she would say to her boss if she quit will help you get a deeper sense of her personality and character.

However, just like talking about friends and family, use this just to get the conversation started. Although everyone can easily talk about work all-night, it’s something we prefer not to do, because we like to leave the workplace and everything about it behind after a long day. Switch to more personal and fun questions immediately.

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A Choice Between Dating for Love and Sex Dating

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Relationships are based on a lot of things: love, honesty, respect, communication, and sex. Or are they? Like many are led to believe, almost all relationships don’t last without the element of sex. Well, they might be right.

It’s fundamentally sound to have the presence of love in a relationship, for it is the foundation of the couple’s togetherness. Regardless of the zero amount of sex dating a couple engages in, love is a feeling that can’t be ignored or brushed off.

What it all boils down to is which category the relationship falls into: she loves me, she loves me not.

• Purely Love
A union based totally on love stems out of respect between two people who don’t have the need to be physically intimate to complete the equation. It may be hard to understand why a man wouldn’t want to go sex dating with the love of his life to consummate their undying love, but honestly, you don’t have to.

It all comes down to what the couple thinks is right for them. They might not be able to have sex because of some physical disability. On the other hand, there are some couples who have sex just for the purpose of procreating. Hey, if that’s what they want to do with their lives, much respect to them.

• Purely Sex
A relationship based only on sex, however, doesn’t involve much understanding and caring for a person and their emotions. The sole purpose of this relationship is to use each other’s physical attraction to satiate their primal sexual needs.

Forget about caring if one is down with the flu or remembering your mom’s birthday for that matter. This kind of relationship is meant to only give you a short time of happiness and instant gratification. You can think of it as loving somebody for just a moment.

Although love can spring from a long-lasting relationship of this kind, especially on the woman’s part, but they rarely happen. Men are more inclined to keep it exactly the way it is. This may also explain why some guys have affairs or keep mistresses.

• Both Sex and Love
Then there are some that comes with the complete package, which probably explains where the term “honeymoon” came from. Like any form of relationship between couples, it has to grow and mature. It’s not healthy for people to be together and feel that their relationship has not evolved into something better after a lengthy time together. There’s no point spending your lives together if nothing’s changed.

As love is a frail emotion that requires nurturing and maintenance, sex is more of like a band-aid solution to minor cuts and scratches. You have an argument, engage in a fight, make up, and have sex. It seems that they perfectly complement each other.

Since relationships have both a mental and physical aspect, being involved in one that has both seems perfectly logical.

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Proper Sexting Conduct When Trying to Hook Up

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There is always a certain amount of risk involved when sending a sext. With the statement of sexual intent already out there, there is a huge potential for it to blow up in your face. You can ask former football quarterback Brett Favre. He was accused of sexually harassing New York Jets sideline reporter Jenn Sterger. The lawsuit is still ongoing, with the aspect of this story focusing on Favre allegedly sending photos of his penis to Sterger.

Guys can learn a thing or two from Favre’s misfortunes. So before you snap a photo of your dong and sext it to a girl you’re trying to hook up with, first find out what she’ll think about upon receiving it. To help you avoid your own sexting disaster, we give you a breakdown of proper sexting conduct you should observe.

Don’t Sext What You Can’t Say

Texting has given us the ability to be a little bolder when it comes to our mobile communications, but if you can’t say something to someone up front, then it’s a bad idea to text it. The obscurity provided by texting and online interactions can make it a bit more tempting to let go of your dirtiest talk, but it is deemed prudent to use a little discretion. Take note: A text or an email message can leave a technological footprint that may come back to haunt you. So when in doubt, do not engage in sexting.

Never Send Unsolicited Sexts

Just as you would determine a woman’s receptiveness to flirting in person, you should also find out if she is open to receiving texts from you before you give it to her. Intentionally giving you her number doesn’t equal to an invitation to start sexting away. Begin by casually flirting to see if she responds, and then you can build it up slowly from there. A good rule of thumb is not to engage anyone in sexting if you haven’t had sex with them yet. It’s a lot safer to assume she won’t mind receiving a steamy text message from you if you’ve already had real life.

Use Words Instead of Images

Guys will have more success in sexting with women using words rather than sending photos of their dong. A women’s sexuality is largely stimulated mentally, which means telling her what you’re going to do to pleasure her when you hook up is far more sexually stimulating than a picture of your boner. Giving her ideas of what you two could do in private will have her blush every time she checks her phone. Allow her to use her imagination and limit your rod appearances to real life sex only.

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