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All adult dating guides emphasize the importance of asking open-ended questions to maintain an interesting conversation. They are crucial in dictating the date’s flow, and at the same time make her feel you are interested in her. Moreover, they allow her to open herself up and talk about her favorite subject herself.

The great thing about asking open-ended questions is they illicit full responses rather than short yes or no answers. Think of how a conversation will flow if you ask her “Why did you take biology in college?” instead of “You took biology in college, right?” The first one leads to an actual conversation that leads to what she enjoys doing, while the second only draws a single word response.

To engage in an interesting and successful adult dating conversation, remember a couple of our essential and helpful tips below. However, don’t use them as a script. You don’t have to worry, because once the conversation starts going, it will naturally flow on its own.

Friends and Family

Question #1: “So what do your folks do for a living?”
Question #2: “What do you and your friends do for fun?”

Friends and family are easy to talk about at length for most people. Interesting questions about these topics make great icebreakers, because they’re quite natural to ask not too personal, nor invasive and they easily lead to a deeper conversation.

Listen intently to her answers so you can make interesting follow up questions. For instance, if she comes from a big family, ask her how often they get all together. This will lead to stories of Thanksgiving get-togethers and Christmas parties. If you have friends in common, this is an easy topic to start a conversation. Just make sure you don’t stay long on the subject of other people, because it will just prevent you from getting to know her better.

Career

Question #1: “How does one get into that kind of work?”
Question #2: “What do you see yourself doing in five years?”

Other great icebreakers are about work. Everyone spends most of their waking hours at the workplace, so it’s a subject that can easily be talked about. After the customary “What do you do?” inquiry, the possibility of more open-ended questions is infinite.

You can ask her about a detailed explanation of her work, her career plans, the things she likes/dislikes about her job, unsavory coworkers, and the things she would say to her boss if she quit will help you get a deeper sense of her personality and character.

However, just like talking about friends and family, use this just to get the conversation started. Although everyone can easily talk about work all-night, it’s something we prefer not to do, because we like to leave the workplace and everything about it behind after a long day. Switch to more personal and fun questions immediately.

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