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Blind dates nowadays aren’t what they used to be. Online hookup dating is now the new norm, while social networking, mobile phones, instant messaging and texting have produced all sorts of inadvertent results. A lot of different true and bizarre hookup dating stories have happened out there, so let us identify the following changes that technology has brought upon the dating populace.

• No accountability

In the past, a third party sets up the meeting, which created accountability. You can’t be a complete dick to your friend’s coworker’s brother, as this will get back to your friend. Despite years of trying to follow netiquette standards, nobody has figured out how to enforce courtesy or honesty every place you go.

• Photo trade-off

Online dating is a lot like catalog shopping, with all the fantasizing over photos of the product. A lot of people upload fake photos of themselves that will surely have a negative impact once they agreed to meet up with a potential hook up date. This will most certainly lead to unfavorable consequences.

• A shocking lack of effort

This happens because the pool of potential dates is just so large. It may also have to do with the lack of accountability, but the sheer volume of dates and date possibilities leads to undesirable behavior. It’s rather easy for people to dump a date on the beginning of the meet up.

• Casting the social net(working) wide

Facebook, along with its various predecessors, has made it absolutely easy to casually invite anyone and everyone you’re interested in to wherever you’ll be. This can pose unfavorable disadvantages.

• Perpetually connected equates to perpetually available

With smart phones that are capable of calling, texting, sending and receiving emails and even being tracked through GPS, you never have to call it a night.

• All the available tech makes you more stalkable

A creepy date that ended up with you literally escaping his clutches can happen. However, it does not end there. Some can be harassed through text messaging, IMing, Facebook, etc. When this happens, changing accounts and cell phone service might be prudent.

• Committing to an actual, flawed human being sounds more like “settling”

Romantic ideals most certainly came before the Internet, but there’s something about writing down “What I’m Looking For” that makes it official. You’ve put it out there in the world; you’ve intimidated everyone who doesn’t measure up; you may even believe that you couldn’t possibly be happy with a man who makes less than 50 grand or stands short of 6 feet tall. People can experience these very strict criteria-gone-haywire which can really ruin your quest of finding true love.

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