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Looking at the bright side, there may be a lot of times when adult dating is just pure joy—you can indulge in the excitement and energy of meeting a potential partner. However, there are times when adult dating can be a burden. It can really be discouraging because after going through a lot of people, you should have connected with someone already, right? So how come your relationships don’t last? Or even worse, how come they don’t even get started?

If this is always the case, chances are you may have been sabotaging your opportunities of finding true love without even knowing it. In this article, we shall outline seven ways you could be hindering yourself from your own happiness. If you think you can see yourself in one of these situations, consider doing a little soul searching to find out how to get out of your adult dating rut you’re stuck in, and get back on track of finding Mr. Right.

1. Pride: You are too good for him.

If you have been brought up as a spoiled little princess, you can end up thinking nobody deserves you completely. Before deciding he isn’t worth your precious time at all and assessing his relationship potential, look at possible partners as friends first. If he gets through your friends test, you’ve already passed his dismissal because he’s not that attractive or doesn’t make enough money.

2. Envy: You always think there’s somebody better out there.

What is the reason why you are never satisfied with all the relationships you’ve been in? Perhaps the reason behind this is deep down inside you fear that you are not deserving of your success. What you should rather do is focus on the good things in your life at the moment, and this includes men you might be dating.

3. Sloth: You are not actively looking for guys to date.

More often than not, the lack of self-confidence is the reason why you don’t actively seek out men. To hurdle this obstacle, you need to change your attitude towards dating. If you believe you deserve to be in a happy relationship, you will make it your goal.

4. Gluttony: You are too needy.

You don’t have to make your partner prove his love. Letting guys jump through hoops doesn’t give you the proof you want, but in fact, it will most likely drive them away. Instead, give them the opportunity to try and captivate you. If there’s some sort of mutual attraction, don’t be so quick to find fault.

5. Wrath: You hold on to the anger of a past relationship.

All men are not the same. Being a victim of an unhappy relationship in the past doesn’t mean it will happen again in the future. What you need to do is to learn how to trust a man again—without this, you won’t be able to have a successful relationship.

6. Greed: You love the money and not the man.

You cannot have a successful relationship with a fat bank account. In this regard, men tend to treat you like any other possession, and they can have you replaced just as easily. So, what should you look for in guys? His ability to love, trust, commit, respect and live his life devoted to you.

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