“I met Allison around a year ago, in a clubs singles, along with her friend Anna. From the beginning, it was made evident to me that Anna was Allison’s best friend and so she tagged along on many of our outings and just seemed to always be around somehow. Allison and I have now dated for six months and we are in a committed relationship…or so I thought. Last night I learned that I have a rival, when she confessed she’s in love with Anna. Apparently it has been platonic up to this moment but she’s pretty sure Anna feels the same way. She wants to give it a go with Anna but she doesn’t want to lose me so she proposes we become a trio…not just a menage-a-trois, but a trio always. I am actually considering it. Am I totally nuts?”
Dear reader:
I’d say your mental status pretty much depends on what kind of bond you currently have with Allison, and what you envision for the future. If your relationship is purely sexual then bringing in a third person might not necessarily be such a bad thing…it can actually become one of those experiences that guys fantasize about but have a hard time proposing…and here it is, being handed to you on a silver platter! To hookup with girls isn’t that easy but here it is, girls offering you to hookup with them both. How you handle it out of bed, I’d say is the trickiest part of all because I imagine there will be times when one of you will simply feel like a third wheel, instead of a part of this arrangement.
Now, if your feelings for Allison are a bit more traditional and homey, I don’t think this is good for you at all. It’s evident Allison doesn’t feel about you the same way you feel about her… you are considering going for this so you don’t lose her, but not because it’s the ideal scenario for you… Allison on the other hand, is the one proposing it and that speaks of what’s going on inside of her. If this is your situation, then I’d say it’s best to end it now. Either road you choose, there will be complications and you need to be aware of it… it’s hard dealing with one woman’s whims…imagine that times two! Labels: adult dating services, clubs singles, dating as an adult, free single sites, hookup with girls, online dating web site, online singles sites
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