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• How does one lower his chances of getting caught having sex in public?

When you decide to have sex in public, one must take the necessary measures to avoid being seen, heard or unfairly jeered at. Dark alleys may be great, but beware of dubious characters that may be around so hide your cash first. Public parks are also perfect places and so are restrooms. The best is someplace with double doors, so you can hear the first door open, giving you a second or two before someone walks in the second door and see you. What you need to do is find a location that’s private, gives you ample cover, and has a wide vantage point so you can react fast for any unwanted visitors.

• My girl insists that she has better orgasms when her feet are up in the air, saying it has something to do with the blood rushing into her body. Any chance this could be true?

According to our CitySex doctors, they vehemently disagree that there may be some truth to this. It’s not like you cut off blood flow in certain positions just like that. The pelvic area has four neuro pathways through which orgasms travel, and getting it on with different positions can and will stimulate different channels. The clitoris activates the pudendal nerve, the cervix hits the vagus nerve, and the G-spot lets you off at the pelvic nerve. The deeper penetration that I think you're describing would likely take you up into the vagina's posterior fornix, thereby rousing the hypogastric plexus and furnishing your woman with her chosen orgasm.

• Do people from other countries have different ways of having sex?

While there may be varying fundamental sexual techniques—approach, fly away, plant, take off, swing up—the inevitable outcome is still the same. So to avoid any misunderstandings that could prevent world peace from happening, let’s focus on the similarities, and not the differences.

Some countries think that Americans are huge prigs because they are not taught how to produce sex videos, like those horny monstrosities the Dutch; and because they don’t stress the positive aspects of sex, like what’s done in the South Pacific where a boy learns how to pleasure his girl at his mother’s knee—not literally, of course.

• My girl thinks I should be more spontaneous. I am short of surprising her in the shower, so what should I do?

For this, let us ask the CitySex sexperts. One suggests reading up on books about how to give erotic massages and massage oils, but we all know this won’t even happen. So, another thing a guy can do is tell her hot fantasies that she can play into with themes she is interested in like role playing, exhibitionism, voyeurism, a three-way, etc. Think: Did your girl ever mention anything about any of these in one of your conversations? Whatever the case may be, it is common knowledge that the most spontaneous situations can be realized through careful planning. That’s what it all means. It’s just all a matter of being prepared for anything that can happen.

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